Do you think that men will choose a kindhearted really beautiful woman over a bubbly chubby girl?

Question

Do you think that men will choose a kindhearted really beautiful woman over a bubbly chubby girl? BE HONEST, b/c both have good qualities going for them, they are just different. One is kindhearted and beautiful, the other is fun and bubbly.

Answer 1

Depends on the guy, and what he personally likes in a girl. Some guys like a bit more meat on their lady. Some prefer quieter personalities. And some love bubbly girls. So it depends.

Answer 2

I think it just depends upon the guys connection with each girl.  As you say they are essentially equal so what counts is what the guy feels in his heart.

Answer 3

Well, there are men that love the chubby ones and there is nothing wrong with that-but most men like slim girls.

Answer 4

Im  not a chubby chaser. No I will take the hot chick with no brains.  

Answer 5

I thnk you should listen to Vanity Affaires comment everyone has their own preference in what they are attracted to but confidence in yourself is an important factor with anyone.  

Answer 6

I'll take  bubbly chubby any time as long as she is sweet, kind and nice. I go for who she is inside not what she looks like outside.

Now that's the God's honest truth and if your chubby I want to meet you.

Answer 7

i didn't really read other's responses.

But here's my opinion.

It all falls down to what the guy likes. Different guys have different preferences. I used to be very shallow and not like girls that didn't look "perfect." Now, my view has changed. If a chick is chunny, skinny, or w/e, if she has the traits that i find attractive, then i would like to talk with her.

As long as a guy finds a girl attractive, the dude will prolly holla.

Let me use myself as an example.

There are these 3 girls that i know and that i like. i them all physically attractive to some degree.

girl 1- skinny, spanish, no butt, beautiful face, very timid personality. she is like the most beautiful looking girl i know

girl 2- spanish, thicker than thick (she has a gut and hips), i can't tell if she has a butt or not, Pretty face, she has a nice personality. she is nice, but at the same time is spicy. she has an attitude. i really like her.

girl 3- mixed, slim, has a butt, has really nice hair, cool personality. i like her and she's cool, it's just that she reminds me of the girls back in high school that never really have an opinion and go with the flow and say everything's always ok. i don't really like that.

so, as you can see, i would talk with the chubby girl before the other two skinny "beautiful" girls. i suppose that all guys have different preferences on attitudes that trump looks. ^_^

*this is, of course, as long as your version of "chubby" doesn't translate to "morbidly obese"

Answer 8

A kindhearted, beautiful woman most likely would be fun since they are kindhearted.  Being a good person also means your openness to other human beings.  So I would say a man would choose the first option. A bubbly person , (which I have a friend who is extremly bubbly and single) can be almost annoying.. hense the fact she is still single.  So your question needs a little more info.  the truth be told, men will choose the thiner girl.  it's sad but true.  our society is based on visul cues and men are visual beasts.

Answer 9

how about a naggy, ungrateful beautiful woman over a nice, average looking woman

Answer 10

Yeah, I believe men would choose the kindhearted really beautiful woman.

Answer 11

i would say i 'd take the chubby nice one

Answer 12

I guess it would all depend on what that man wants... Either way is a bonus, BUT beauty does fade. So if it is based on looks, either can improve or degrade... just depends on if they take care of themselves or not.

And, each person also grows and changes with age and wisdom.

Answer 13

Just because the one girl is fun and bubbly and happens to be chubby, she can't be beautiful as well? I think men would chose the one who is confident with who they are.

Answer 14

What kind of question is this.... of coarse kindhearted and beautiful. No guy wants a fat chick.

Answer 15

It depends on the man and his personality. I think some men would prefer a woman who is fun over one who is neccessarily kind regardless of who is better looking. Others would prefer a moer serious and kindhearted woman than one who is playful. Of course, if it's just for a casual or sexual relationship clearly he's going to go for the one who is best looking (given both are as interested in this relationship), of course, fat women do have a reputation for being easy, so that might change things depending on the man and his goals.

Answer 16

Most men want what other men want. So if the chubby girl has another boyfriend, he will want her. If the nice one has another guy, he will want her. It's just how that thing works.  They want what someone else has.

Answer 17

I think that it depends on the man.  Looks are not everything to some men.  Having fun with a woman really means a lot though.  So you have your pros and cons in the two situations. I truly think its more about love. What a guy wants is truly individual to what that guy wants and needs.