Do you think that saying out almost an hour after you told your parents you would be home is bad?

Question

If you did it and didn't even call to tell them that you would be late, or if you wanted to stay out later? Do you think it would break trust with your parents? HELP ME PLEASE, I NEED IT

Answer 1

Broken trust???? YES!!!! As a father of 2 girls, I guess I worried every time they went out. Ask yourself, at what point in time should your parents worry about you? 15 minutes? hour? 2 hours? Do you see what I'm getting at. You tell your parents when you'll be home and then you don't show, when should they wonder if you lying in a field dead or something?

Some day you too will be a parent, ask your self what would you do? When would you worry?

Answer 2

It shows that you're both disrespectful and irresponsible. You should have called and asked for permission if you have a curfew. And yes, it does break some of the trust that you have with your parents because it shows them that you willingly disrespect the curfew They set for you.

Answer 3

I depends the time . Example: If you time to come home was 12:00 am and you stayed until 1:00. Thats worse then 8-9 or 9-10. I think you parents would be less likely to let you go out late. Your parents would be very worried if you didnt call. Im sure they'd rather you just ask them to stay an hour late then lie.

Answer 4

Of course it breaks trust! It is also dishonest and sneaky. Disrespectful too! Go home!

Answer 5

yeah i just asked a question about curfew. but i know that it would def. break my parents trust if i came home an hour late without even calling.

try calling them and saying that you'll be home a little later because of traffic or something, thats what i usually do. as long as i call and let em kno that im safe their ususally cool with it.

Answer 6

Yes. Its lieing to your parents. Disrespectful. Untrustworthy

Answer 7

yes it would break trust with your parents they might take away some of your priveleges and take away your freedom....

Answer 8

i think it would be bad and it would break their trust bc they would be scared ( for that hour) that something bad had happened to you. its easier to pick up a phone and call instead of them worrying and then you getting punished.

Answer 9

haha bad idea..

i did that once except i was an hour late..

my mom wasnt too happy lmfao

Answer 10

If you stay out any later then you tell your parents, thats lying and being irresponsible. Its a completly different story if you forgot and didnt get home to much later.

Answer 11

Yes it would have a bad effect on the trust your parents have. I wouldn't do it. How hard is it to call them up and say, "I'm going to be a little late, is that okay?"

Answer 12

it's disrespectful and shows that you're irresponsible.   if you want to stay out later, you should discuss that with them before you go out.

Answer 13

It will cause them to trust you less but no it is not that bad. Husbands do it all the time to their wives. However, if it's past dark and my kids are not home, I panic. Because I can't live without them and I can't feel secure if I don't know they're safe.

Answer 14

It would break trust with your parents and can cause them great worry.  With all the kidnappings and killings and everything teens need to be open with their parents and be home on time or call if they are going to be late.  Bad things can happen.  My sister decided that she didn't have to come home one night when she was out with friends, she figured what is an extra hour.  Not wanting to hear my dad complain she just didn't call.  Then two hours went by then three hours.  The cops were called and they finally tracked down my sister only to find out she had been drugged and raped.  She was 15 years old at the time.

Answer 15

Yes I do. You don't know how many awful things they were thinking that may have happened to you. They love u very much and worry about you. Don't say "Nothing will happen to me, I'll be ok". Teens think they are indestructable------------they aren't. If you were mine, after I'd killed you, I would ground u for 2 weeks. ALWAYS call your parents if you're going to be late. Up until the time I was 18 I had to be home by 11:00 PM unless it was something very special.  I know times have changes, but courtesy and thoughtfulness hasn't.

By the way, you'll think about this when you're a parent. Really.

Good Luck.