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Do you think that traditions like mutah, taqiah and mourning bring Islam into disrepute?

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When I enter into inter faith dialog with non Muslims, they argue that Islam allows telling lies and temporary marriages akin to extra marital s*x and fruitless mourning for 40 days for a 1400 year old tragedy which cannot be corrected now. I tell them these are later additions to Islam and are not part of Kitab and Sunnah.

Please read the following news:

Man convicted in UK over teen floggings at religious ceremony

LONDON, Aug 27: A British court found a Muslim man guilty of cruelty on Wednesday for forcing two teenagers to flog themselves until their backs bled during a religious ceremony.

A jury at Manchester Crown Court convicted Syed Mustafa Zaidi, 44, on two counts of child cruelty over the incidents, during the ceremony in January.

The victims, who were 13 and 15 at the time, were forced to beat themselves with a chain which had a wooden handle with chains and five blades attached. Zaidi, who denied cruelty, also beat himself during the ceremony.

A prosecution lawyer stressed that the case was not an attack on Islamic traditions.

“The Crown Prosecution Service wishes to make it clear that this prosecution was not an attack upon the practices or ceremonies of Shia Muslims,” said Carol Jackson of the Greater Manchester CPS.

She noted that the prosecution relied in part on the evidence of the president of the local community centre.

“The law exists to protect the young from harm or being exposed to harm. In this case, both boys were made to take part in the ritual flagellation and suffered injuries to their backs.

“We are satisfied that, given the age of the children involved, the coercion employed by Syed Mustafa Zaidi, who did not accept that he was wrong, and the possibility of such an incident occurring again, the decision to prosecute... was the correct one.”

Do not you think such additions allow our rivals to make a mockery of our noble religion?

Muhammad Javed Iqbal

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  1. ASSALAAM-O-ALAIKUM

    Read this all if u really want to know all this i have given is sunni references i can't give u short answer

    U ASKED 3 QUESTIONS HERE IS ANSWERS OF YOUR QUESTION.

    ANS 1 )Temporary Marriage in Islam

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    Fixed-Term/Temporary/Pleasure Marriage are different names for the Arabic word of "Mut'a" which is a contract between a man and woman, much in the same way the Long-Term/Permanent/Conventional Marriage is.

    The main difference is that the temporary marriage longs only for a specified period of time, and man and woman will become stranger to each other after the expiration date without divorce.

    One misconception regarding temporary marriage is that some people think that the woman engaged in temporary marriage can have contract every other hour.

    This is completely misrepresentation of temporary marriage.

    After such contract has been expired, the woman has to wait for two months (Iddah) before which she can not marry any one else.

    This issue, among others, will be discussed later in detail.

    The first one who legislated Mut'a with all the rules pertaining to it, was the Messenger of Allah (PBUH&HF), after it was revealed in Quran.

    All Muslims agree that the Messenger of Allah legislated Mut'a and made it legal after his migration to Medina, and the Muslims practiced it during his lifetime.

    (see al-Mughni, by Ibn Qudamah, v6, p644, 3rd Edition).

    However there is a disagreement between the Shia and most of the Sunnis concerning whether the Prophet later banned it or not.

    Most Sunnis assert that although the Prophet legislated it, he later forbade it.

    This is while the Shia believe that temporary marriage was never abandoned by the Prophet (PBUH&HF).

    Allah revealed it in Quran, and it was being widely practiced to the end of his lifetime and during the period of Abu Bakr and the early days of Umar's rule, until Umar forbade it.

    In Parts I through IV, we study the verse of Mut'a marriage in Quran and look into the Sunni commentary (Tafsir) of this verse, and review the traditions reported in the six authentic Sunni collections about Mut'a.

    In Part V we discuss the purposes of marriage as well as the chronological orders of the prohibition of illegal s*x and the permission of Mut'a in the history of Islam.

    In Part VI the similarities and differences which exist between the two types of marriage are presented in detail.

    In Part VII we discuss the necessities and the advantages of the temporary marriage, and finally in Part VIII we answer some frequently asked questions regarding to the Mut'a.

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    Evidences From the Sunni Commentaries

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    Note & check on these sunni books

    Sunni references:

    Sahih al-Bukhari, Arabic-English version, v7, Tradition #13a

    Sahih al-Bukhari, Arabic, v6, p11, under Tafsir of verse 5:87 of Quran

    Sahih Muslim, Arabic version, 1980 Edition Pub.

    in Saudi Arabia, v2, p1022, Tradition #11, "Kitab al-Nikah, Bab Nikah al-Mut'a"

    Sahih Muslim, English version, v2, chapter DXLI (titled: Temporary Marriage), Tradition #3243

    Following the above tradition in Sahih Muslim, it is narrated that:

    This Hadith has been narrated on the authority of Isma'il with the same chain of transmitters (but the words are): "We were young so we said: "O Allah's Apostle! should we not have ourselves castrated? But he (the narrator) did NOT say we were on an expedition.

    "

    Sunni references:

    Sahih Muslim, English version, v2, chapter DXLI (titled: Temporary Marriage), Tradition #3245

    Sahih Muslim, Arabic version, 1980 Edition Pub.

    in Saudi Arabia, v2, p1022, Tradition #12, "Kitab al-Nikah, Bab Nikah al-Mut'a"

    Narrated Abu Nadhra:

    While I was in the company of Jabir Ibn Abdullah (RA), a person came to him and said that Ibn Abbas (RA) and Ibn Zubair differed on the two types of Mut'a (Mut'a of Hajj and Mut'a of women), whereupon Jabir said: We used to do these two during the life time of Allah's Messenger (PBUH&HF).

    Umar then forbade us to do them, and so we did not revert to them.

    Sunni references:

    Sahih Muslim, English version, v2, chapter DXLI (titled: Temporary Marriage), Tradition #3250.

    Sahih Muslim, Arabic version, 1980 Edition Pub.

    in Saudi Arabia, v2, p1023, Tradition #17, also v2, p914, Tradition #1249.

    Again the above tradition emphasizes that both Mut'a were abolished by Umar, and some people did not return to it at least publicly, because Umar threatened people that he will stone any one who does it.

    Below is a more straight forward tradition:

    Jabir Ibn Abdullah reported: "We contracted temporary marriage giving a handful of the dates or flour as a dower during the life time of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and during the time of Abu Bakr until Umar forbade it because of Amr Ibn Hu


  2. that's Shia's theology. Lying is a sin and Muta is a bigger sin. Shia's are 10% of the Muslim population. their theology is irrelevant to Islam.

  3. I am not trying to be mean, but....

    I think that your religion would be more "noble" if it made accommodations for modern systems of thinking, including the recognition of women's rights, homosexual rights, and secular governance.

    The problem in religion is that it doesn't change. No religion is perfect from the start. Countries that claim to follow "true Islam" tend to be the most backward in the world. Where else does a rich, oil-filled nation (Saudi Arabia) persecute women who have been raped, because according to Shariah law they must have four witnesses to prove the rape?

    So yes, Islam makes itself look more extreme and backwards every day. The U.S., with all of its problems and contradictions looks like heaven by comparison to Islamic governments.  


  4. As a born again Christian I must honestly believe Islam is a religion of error.  I can respect and even like Islamic people and have no ill will toward them personally but I believe their faith is in vain and I will never believe the Islamic religion is right.  I am willing to be at peace with you but never believe with you.

    If you try the Jihad stuff where I live like you do in Darfur I am also willing to be your enemy! Not in hate but in common sense self survival for myself, family and my neighbors.

  5. flogging, mutah (temporary marriage) etc are not islamic and actually un-islamic. these evil crept into a couple of sects of islam and is not followed by mainstream muslims. infact mainstream mulsims are shocked and offended by these practices and  consider it heresy.

  6. Islam is being of the one true religion of peace.  You are being of such with this or we are being of chopping off your heads!

  7. As far as I know, all these customs stated above are s**+'ism. These are not the teachings of Qur'an and Sunnah. Since these are additions to the religion, people who have virtually no idea of Islam see this and say that Islam is a bad religion. In order for others to get the true message of Islam, we have to practice it correctly ourselves. One classic example of this is the idea of terrorism in Islam. We know that there is no room for these actions in Islam but people abuse the religion and carry out these actions in the name of Islam and the masses are confused and some even hate Islam and Muslims altogether. So we have to practice our religion in the right way so that people have no content to play with.

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