Do you think that you can?

Question

be in love when you are 14

most people say no but if you say no i want to know why you think that and also if you say yes why do you think so?

i have been with this guy and i am 14 and i am in love with him.

and what is the difference between ages and love?

we arnt having s*x or anything

at all so what would he be after

and he isnt cheating because we spend nearly every minute with eachother.

Answer 1

Eric Erikson a child psychologist has done studies on human beings and when they mature or grow up. It is a fact that most do not reach the age of maturity until about age 24. If you are 14, then you are 10 years away from being able to make adult decisions about love.

Answer 2

anything is possible. you might be in whats called "puppy love". you are still pretty young and havent gone through all the experiences in life to decide whether it is love. there is a lot to learn in romance..even ppl in their 20's are still learning

Answer 3

What the heck does following in love mean anyway. You can fall in love at any age.  

Answer 4

Well I was in love at fourteen too. I think it is possible. I am very hapy for you!

Answer 5

it's possible.  good, don't have s*x till ya get married.

Answer 6

What!!??? You're 14. What do you know about love? What do you know about life?  There are people much older than you, who don't even know that love is, let alone what life is about.

You should concentrate on school, and what you want to do with your life, get an education, travel, get an awesome career and then think about love, s*x and marriage.  Having s*x too young can only complicate your life; especially when there is an unexpected pregnancy.  

Live your life, plan your future. Be blessed and good luck.

Answer 7

the difference between ages is the maturity and the way you think. But I will tell you that you can fall in love at that age! But maybe in the future when you meet someone else and fall in love again you will see the difference of what you felt for the last person you were with. So feelings change. I fell in love with the girl I am still in love with when I was 15 and now I am 17 turning 18 soon!  

Answer 8

Yes when you are 14 you can be in love...  I should know because I was.  You just have to know that it might not last forever.  I hate how people say that 14 year olds can't love.  Those of us who have just know that it's true and I guess that's all that matters.

Answer 9

i met my boyfriend when i was 6 years old, i started liking boys when i was around 11 and all of a sudden he just clicked for me. i was totally in love with him. i told my mom i was gonna marry him. when i was 13 and he was 15 we started dating and have been together ever since. (im 19 now) i totally think you can love someone when your 14. i just think that certain ages in boys can mean certain things forguys. exp when a guy is 12 hes interested in giving you hugs, holding your hand. when hes 14 hes more interested in kissing and touching and hes getting more physical. when hes 16 hes more interested in having s*x and less interested in  having an exclusive relationship. when he's 18 hes able to have a good relationship with you and even more interested in having s*x lol. so good luck with you and your boy

Answer 10

age dosnt matter...

Answer 11

yes most probely but ask him and tell him that you feel unsure  

Answer 12

love knows no age

Answer 13

no