Do you think there are vibrations etc. in people or houses that makes a house seem more comfortable?

Question

I know there are some homes you go into that you get a "warm" feeling inside. And..others you go in that feel "cold". (I don't mean warm or cold to your skin...but to your "spirit") Hope you know what I mean. I wonder what causes this.I don't think it has anything to do with the furnishings...or the personality of the owners.Maybe it's the house itself. Sometimes you can go into an empty house and feel this.

Answer 1

Yes, absolutely, but I'm unable to decide if it's me or the house. A blend of both? Good question, Deenie.

Answer 2

It mostly depends on the ambience and the design of the home/house. Most people are just too scary that they think that some ghosts are living in there and said that the home/house has a bad vibrations. If the home/house is well ventilated, there's no reason for anybody to feel uncomfortable. Mind and body are intertwined with each other. Wherever your mind goes the body will follow

Answer 3

It would be interesting to test this, get people to go into a house separately then record and compare their impressions.

But I think pleasant or neutral odors, a good colour scheme, well lit rooms, good maintenance etc.. would be the main factors in deciding how friendly a house felt.

Edit;

A matter of taste too - I would feel more comforable with grey than lurid pink for example.

Answer 4

Yes, I think so.   But it can also be whether or not the people there make you feel welcome.  

I think there are also impressions left on a place by people who have lived there.

Answer 5

ghost are cold,so they allways turn down the thermostats in the houses they are haunting...........

Answer 6

Vibrations?  "Vibrations" is a New Agey buzzword which usurps a scientific sounding term for mystical conjectures. It's like "energy". It is used to describe everything and therefore ends up meaning nothing.

However, some homes do feel more inviting than others. But why do you discount the furnishings? Actually, I think the furnishings, the floor plan, color scheme and lighting have everything to do with it.

Answer 7

Yes.  Every place that exists puts off a "vibration," that either automatically repells us from that area or draws us.  Sometimes it CAN be furnishings, the layout, the colors, or the natural energies that the house has gathered from previous residents or even the land that it sits on.

Some people are drawn to certain energies while others instinctivlly are drawn to them due to curosity, or the balance of a similar nature.

I have lived in places that had a "bad vibe," but just by entering the enviroment for an umlimited amount of time I have been able to neutralize them, and create the opposite effect.  Than I have lived in such places where I have only been able to do this to a specific area of the home, because of other residents that were also in the building at the time.

Making a home a home though is a gift of individuals who are able to either counterbalance the bad with good harmonies, or neutralize an area or areas in order to make it more welcoming to others.

I understand what you are writing, I am just having difficulty explaining myself, so sorry if I've rambled and repeated myself.

My uncle is a carpenter/building contracter that specializes in moving homes, remodeling antique homes, and or building them from scratch.  He will not deal with "Cookie Cutter," because he says they lack the personality and individualism that makes a house suitable to be a home, or does not reflect the "persoanlity" of the land around it, or the owners.  He has encountered houses that he swore were literally an entity unto itself.  Not due to any past residents, but literally just the building, and has refused to have anything to do with them.

Answer 8

yes, true.

it is said that if u have to detect the vibes in a new house u wanna purchase, take a little baby inside it.

if the baby cries and cries, then the vibes in the house may not be comfortable, if the baby continues playing happily there, that house is considered to be having good vibes.

not only babies, most of the people can sense this.

its not the HOUSE which seems cold or warm,

but its the PEOPLE living inside the house, or even who lived in that house, contribute to the vibes..

and this contribution is by

1. the deeds of the people

2. thinking of the people

3. goodness which lies in them

4. honesty of the people

5. and readiness of the people to help this world

Answer 9

It's a tough question, because many of the things that are being described in the answers above (i.e. attitudes and habits of the residents of such homes) tend to be expressed visually by what's IN the house - pictures, arrangements, etc.

I'll tell you what the tricky part of all this is, and then give you some examples. The VIBRATIONS (or spiritual flavor) of a place are virtually indistinguishable from the PHYSICAL things in that place. Now, examples:

1.) You walk into a home of two parents and two children. One or more of the people has an addiction to some controlled substance - let's say cocaine, just for the sake of specificity. This has led to problems in the marriage, abnormal parent/child patterns of behavior, etc. Ultimately, the family is distant - and you can tell immediately when you walk in the door.

This may be due to the vibrations or aura of the place, but there will be physical signs of this dysfunction as well. The house will probably be arranged so that each member can perform different activities without interfering with one another; there will be barriers and divisions within most rooms. Communal places will be underused because the family avoids spending time together; the dining room table will be cluttered with papers and bills because it's not used for talks around the dinner table. If the living room has a couple of couches, they will be arranged in a way that draws attention to the TV and away from each other, because the family won't spend time there face-to-face.

2.) A man's wife has been killed recently in a car crash. You go to visit, and when you walk in the door you can sense a great loss. It seems as if the house has an empty, hollow component - and it surely will. But this can be due IN PART to the physical expression of that absence. For example, the husband in mourning might find it too painful to get rid of the wife's characteristic items. There may be a stack of her favorite magazines next to the place she like to sit and read, but with a layer of dust over them. Maybe she was a knitter, and there is a basket of yarn and darning needles next to her favorite chair with a half-woven shawl sitting untouched. Maybe there was a portrait of the couple hanging in the living room which the husband took down to hold (or, perhaps, to hide away, if the picture was too painful to look at). In such a case, there will be an empty spot on the wall where something obviously belongs ... adding to the feeling of absence or emptiness.

3.) In the most common (and perhaps the most easy to understand) instance, a home with children will tend to have a wilder, more energetic 'buzz' than a home without. This could be from the energy of the children and the vibrancy of life energy in that place, or from the cracker crumbs on the living room carpet, the wiffle ball and bat in the front yard, and the smattering of toys throughout the house that didn't get put away. Taken together, this gives the home a slightly more erratic, BUSY feeling than a home without them.

Don't get me wrong - I'm a strong believer in the spirit and energy of places and things. But I belive that even our 'mundane' sense allow us to tap into them, so that spiritual nature and physical nature are not divisible, but unified.

Answer 10

yes i notice that in areas too. like towns, cities, suburbs.