Do you think this is mean?!? Pleez answer!?

Question

Well I play middle school volleyball and Ive been playing volleyball for about 3 or 4 years and everyone else just started this year. But a lunch I have the regular lunch like everyone else, but some of my teammates yelled at me because I dint have a salad like them and I dont wanna be anorexic kinda like them! And they also yelled me cuz at practice this girl hit the ball and then fell right where the ball was about to fall and so I hit it really soft mainly cuz I didnt want it to hit her. But It didnt really go that far and everyone yelled at me. And then yesterday at a game I got hit on the face and nose and today at lunch I heard them calling my a crybaby! My coach had to check multiple times to see if I had a concusion! And I hear them saying that I don't work as hard as them when I have fallen alot and I even have bruises on my legs to prove it! So don't you think thats a little rude? Do you think I should quit the team? Pleez help!

Answer 1

Yes it is mean. But if you're a little overweight it wouldn't hurt to eat a salad. I doubt anyone TRIES to be anorexic some people just eat less than others because either the food they're parents give them stinks, or they are just not hungry. You should definitely quit especially if you're not good at it. ( You can always seek Messiah, and bear you're troubles on him)

Answer 2

I think that was very mean of your teammates and that they should apologize! As teammates you guys should be lifting each other up not bringing each other down. It is ok to give friendly advice, but they don't need to like scream at you. I would say if you love the sport don't quit the team keep playing. Just ignore what the other girls say just worry about yourself and not what the others. Even though the girls call you names you just need to ignore them and be friendly to them. You need to be the bigger person and even when they mess up tell them good job. Don't quit the team because of them try to enjoy the season the best you can.

Answer 3

I would say that they are being rude .

Either that or they want to be little miss know it all .

What they don't realize is that just having a salad at lunch is not enough when you are active in a sport like this .

As far as them calling you a cry baby . Ignore them . If you react to their little comments they will continue with them .

They are just trying to get a rise out of you .

I think it's time that you have a talk with your coach . This is no way for team players to be acting .

Let the coach know just what they are doing and saying and let him/her know that you do not appreciate their comments .

If the coach doesn't do any thing , take it further and have a talk with the principle .

Let your parents know what is going on also .

But what ever you do do not quit . You would be giving them the idea that they won .

It's a good possibility too that they are jealous of you . They know that you been at this longer and you know what you are doing where as they just started this year and are still learning .

Don't give in to them . Stay with it and maybe they will learn a thing or two from you .

Good luck .

Answer 4

thats mean i think there just jealous though

Answer 5

They are being rude...but don't take it so personally, I'm sure everyone tells you that, but it is true on my team there is a girl always telling people what to do and I just shrug it off and go onto the next play. Ultimately it is the coach that makes the decisions about your playing abilities, don't let those other girls take control of your game. You should just have fun and keep playing. If you are really worried about this you should talk to a trustworthy adult that can help you out. Just remember whenever you show up for practice or a game show up to play and don't let anyone bring you down...just remember that you are becoming stronger through this experience and in the future you will look back on this as something that helped you to become a better person.

Don't forget to have FUN!! ;)