Do you think this is ok.........

Question

i'm 16 im dating a boy well a man that is 22

is that ok?

Answer 1

No it is not okay.  You are what is called jail bait and the young man could end up in jail.  Making matters worse he would be labeled a s*x offender and be branded for the rest of his life.  Date someone your own age.

Answer 2

Depends on the maturity of each of the couple but I don't see anything wrong with it.

Answer 3

I guess it kind of depends. If its not just a s*x-based relationship, then I guess its fine - but if the whole thing is just having s*x, chances are he could be taking advantage of you. Apart from that, I think its fine. Its only six years age difference.

Answer 4

at the end of the day its up to you..but as you are asking for opinions...I would be suspicious of the psyche a man of that age that wanted to date a 16year old, personally

Answer 5

no, it's not.  for one, you are jailbait and he could get in trouble for dating you.  second, i am 22 myself and trust me, i have nothing in common with a 16 year old, and neither should he.  you both live in two different worlds.  now, if you were like 26 and 32, it would be a completley different story, but trust me, stick to guys your age.

Answer 6

yeah my mom and dad has that difference

Answer 7

No nothing wrong with that i'm sure many other people date boys as old as that or even older.

Answer 8

If it's not a sexual relationship... live in the real world please, what else would a 22 year old man be after?  If 16 were you live is underage then he could get a criminal record, even if he hasn't made sexual advances towards you yet, he shouldn't be dating you.  Tell him to find someone his own age (why is he not dating women his own age?) and for you to open your eyes and see what is really going on.  If you want to date then hang around with boys, yes boys your own age and not men.

Answer 9

Sounds creepy, but if it's not a sexual relationship, maybe it wouldn't sound so weird.

He's probably not a catch. If he's 22 and dating a high school kid, he most likely didn't go to college. So what does he do with his life? Stay at home with his mom, have room mates, or perhaps has a ratty apartment of his own in a seedy part of town.

But I have a feeling this is an online relationship.