Do you think this is petty?

Question

A few weeks ago I asked this guy I have been texting for a couple of months if he wanted to 'see' me he said yes and I said when and he didn't respond with a time or place. I was really upset so I rang my friend and I told her the story. She has been seeing two guys on a casual basis and she said to me that neither one of them would treat her like that because they 'want' her and they guy I have been texting just doesn't 'want' me. I was really upset about it but I didn't say anything. Then the other night I had a few drinks and texted this guy and he didn't respond (we have spoken since the last time a number of times) and I told my friend and she told me to just leave him alone. Anyway I sent her a text that said 'it's just so unfair. Well at least all the men in your life 'want' you. She turned around the next day and said I was calling her a sl*t. I absolutely in no way was. I am really sick of apologizing and don't think what I said was that bad. I think she is to old (25) to be so petty. What do you think?

Answer 1

Just tell her you were drunk and acting stupid and no you did not mean to imply she is or was a s**t. Tell her you are just upset about the guy whos messing with your head and you are a little jealous of the fact that she has a lot of guys. Just tell her you wanted her advice and was upset when she told you what you didnt want to hear. Tell her she was right.

She DID overreact but you said mean stuff and you kind of implied shes a s**t. Just make peace with her and shes right stop texting that guy.

If he texts you again say "clearly u are messin with my head and dont want to see me for real. So stop textin me im done with the games and u"

Answer 2

Your friend shouldn't have said that about her two guys wanting her and yours not wanting you. I mean, that's kind of rubbing it in your face. As a friend she should be making you feel better, not worst! So you had the right to text that to her to let her know that what she said to you was wrong. If she was a good friend she'll realize that what she said hurt you and that she should be apologizing to you.

As for the guy, if he says he likes you give him and yourself a break. Maybe he left his phone at home or is just busy at the time of you texting. I know I don't respond my texts right away because most of the time I don't hear the alert go off or just away from my phone. So if he seems like he digs you, don't fret about it. But if you're really worried just be upfront with him and ask him whats up. Well, good luck!  

Answer 3

That is fairly petty of her - you need to cut people like that from your life.  I once had a friend like that, everytime I called her, I didn't know if she was mad at me for something or not. People who twist your words suck

As for the boy scenario, he might not like texting or have a good plan that allows text, give him a call and if he doesn't answer, there's your answer :)

Answer 4

wow i thought this was written by a fifteen year old girl about another 15yr old girl.grow up.