Do you think this was okay of me?

Question

So after 13days of having our triplets in the house my fiance and I needed some time off and give our girls (4 and 2) some one on one time. So I dropped the triplets off at my parents. They actually asked to take them but I still feel bad. I don't know if they know what they got themselves into. And they aren't old either, my mom is 45 and my dad is 47 so I am not worried about that.

Answer 1

Of course it is fine, absolutely. You are wise to understand that your other children need extra attention whenever you can manage.

However, wouldn't have been easier for your mom and dad to go to your house? Packing up for 3 infants is alot and I would think that would have been easier for all of you. Just a thought.

Answer 2

any parents that have as many kids as you do, definitely need to split the time up between them. when they are older, you will all be together most of the time. for now, while the triplets are just babies, it's fine to take them to grandma's house. i would love that if it were me. the babie's won't forget you, and your girls will be more at ease knowing that haven't been forgotten. you enjoy this time with the girls, you parent's will enjoy their time with the 3, all is well.

Answer 3

Who cares;;I just got 2 points!!

=)

Answer 4

I'm confused. You have 13 day old triplets and you say you have a 4 and 2 year old. How do you have time to browse around yahoo answers with 2 week old triplets and two other kids. Plus you say your 18.

girl, please.

But if this is a serious question 2 weeks is pretty early to be handing off the babies just to get some alone time.

Answer 5

yes it is OK but you have to remember about the triplets and to spend time with them to

Answer 6

hey its ok...Both husband and wife also should have some quality time for healthy relationship...But dont leave ur children for longer time.Otherwise they may miss u too..You should balance both sides accordingly...All the best...

Answer 7

of course its alright as long as you dont always dump the kids on them =]

Answer 8

Of course it's alright. It's very important that you and your hubby still get some time be yourselves. It's normal to feel guilty, but no need. You are doing something healthy for your relationship, which benefits the whole family.

Answer 9

ya its fine everyone needs some time off sometimes, especially with triplets.

Answer 10

Perfectly fine. You and the hubby need some quality time together. Just be sure you don't dump on the grandparents all the time.