Do you think this was s*x?

Question

I spent the night with my boyfriend and we got involved in some really heavy making out. We were just in our underwear and he was on top of me. He was really turned on and he spread me open with his fingers and put his pen!s there and was partially inside me and started rocking back and forth. He still had his boxers on though. He wasn't fully inside me, his boxers were still fully covering him, and i made him stop after a few seconds. I'm sure he doesn't consider that he had "s*x" with me by doing that. but technically, was it s*x? why or why not?

and he is 20, i'm 17.

Answer 1

FIRST OFF

IT'S CALLED RAPE

Answer 2

If His Pen!s Was In Side Your VAjaja It Was

Answer 3

If he wants to admit it or not you had s*x

Answer 4

Yes it was s*x the fact you are asking means that you already know the answer. I hope he didn't get you pregnant we do not need another unwed mother roaming the streets.

Answer 5

you had s*x

Answer 6

i say that is s*x.because wen you have s*x with a condom you lose your virginity.so if you and your boyfriend had s*x with boxers on then id say you had s*x.

Answer 7

Yes, this was s*x, for once the p***s enters the vaginal cavity even just a little bit, you're not a virgin and this is s*x. What he did was illegal because you're still considered a minor and he's an adult. He did have s*x with you and until you become of age, I wouldn't reccommend doing this again. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

technically it was like s*x with a cotton condom on.

Answer 9

lol wow umm not really its only s*x if your naked and he stick himself inside you

Answer 10

if there was penetration than it was s*x !

Answer 11

im gonna have to say it wuz

but why boxers?

just get a rubber

Answer 12

no thats just wierd...

Answer 13

oh la la

Answer 14

That's illegal you are under 18 and he is over 18 that counts as rape even though you both agreed or whatever  

Answer 15

you're not a virgin, any form of penetration by one to another is sexual intercoarse.

Answer 16

He must be catholic.

Answer 17

It depends on whoever' view of what defines "having s*x."

And also, there's also a chance of getting pregnant that way from his fluids.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 18

s*x is anything that is viginal contact wit the p***s so yes its s*x.

Answer 19

Yup--be greatful he didnt shoot it on your leg before he even wedged it in.

Answer 20

Depends on your definition of s*x... just ask Bill Clinton. LOL

Sounds like it was some form of s*x though.  

Answer 21

you had s*x...srry u lost ur v card

Answer 22

for your age , you are both very inmature on s*x ,,, really read a book about s*x , no that not s*x

Answer 23

Yes, you did

Answer 24

Well It was not really s*x because he was not all the way in ..it was called a teasing .... but if he let go then you can call it that then ..!!!

Answer 25

Um I have no clue what to say to this

Answer 26

I would still consider you a virgin.  You know he can leak through his boxers and you could still get pregnant that way right?  When guys get turned on their stuff leaks out and it does have sperm in it.

Answer 27

almost s*x!

He can go to jail because YOU are underage!

Answer 28

Whether it was s*x or not I don't know. I do think it was at least close and you should check into birth control. If it has not happened yet it will.

Answer 29

YEAH AND YOUR THIS OLD AND DONT KNOW IF OR IF NOT YOU HAD s*x  YOU SHOULD NOT BE HAVING IT THEN

Answer 30

its only s*x if you want it to be. try talking to him about it maybe. i wouldnt consider that s*x, especially if it was for only a couple seconds. but in the end it only matters what you think.

Answer 31

yes it was s*x if he penetrated you at all it was s*x and it was also an adult having s*x with a minor which is real dumb on his part.