My boyfriend is very depressed, and when he's depressed, he gets really mean. He's controlling it now, and is always very sweet when he talks to me, because I can't handle it if he is anything less than affectionate because I am so depressed. I really want to help him, but it's so hard because I can't even help myself. He loves photography and music, so do you think it would help if I started making dates revolving around those things to get him doing what he used to love so much??? Is there anything else I can do?? I do all the stupid stuff, like buy him clothes I know he'd love, or bake him brownies, just to let him know I am thinking of him, but I want to do more, even though I am really depressed myself. What else can I do?
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