Do you think trying to be a different person could cause problems?

Question

like u have good intentions to change, but in doing so you already make the changes, before proving it so, in hoping you will eventually believe it, or people around you will believe i , therefor it is so??? its blowing my mind

so maybe before going crazy we should stop and say hey, this is stupid

Answer 1

Yes, its true. it causes many problems.

ive done it soo many times, and im not even kidding.

i got caught each time !

im sorry to say, its a waste of time when you could be getting your own life.

Answer 2

People are generally always the same.  You cannot make changes overnight.  Start simple...such as offering help to friends without them asking for it.  If you know they have something going on like a home improvement or moving or anything...just offer it.  If they take you up on it...DO IT.  

Rule of thumb....dont talk trash.

If you try too hard initially, yes it could cause problems.  Dont make a drastic change because people will wonder and you wont stick to it.  Start slow...starting slow will allow yourself to keep up and stay  focused.  Trust me they will notice maybe not right away but they will.  People remember the best and the worst about people.  If you stab someone in the back..they never forget.  If you help them in need or stick up for someone...they never forget.

Answer 3

i know what you mean. sometimes i think im a good person, but then i reflect on my life and realize, i don't even like the person i am half the time. no one is perfect. people make mistakes all the time. all life is, is a series of decisions, and sometimes we choose the wrong ones. no one's born with courage, courage is in making the right decision when it arises.

this is a quote i saw in my doctors office of all places:



    ""Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny."



it find this quote very meaningful. just watch your thoughts from the beginning. when negative ones come into mind push them out. it makes life so much better.

Answer 4

take it from me...trying to change or be different is..hard. I tried once while i was going to school, just wanted friends, but one can only be one's self you know. that's why I'm lone wolf. it does hurt sometimes real bad the isolation, sorrow,  anger, fear, pain, loneliness, and depression. trying to change for the years that i did try, destroyed my life. i learned to quit caring what other people thought and embraced the pain, and loneliness. i learned i was f**ked from here on there's nothing left for me to live for in my own life except to just survive. Also my nieces and nephew i dont really show emotion to good but i'd die for them & kill to protect them, they make me proud so i guess i live for them to. sorry for straying off subject but to change a little no but to change to much well could have horrible consequence's.      

Answer 5

there is nothing wrong with trying to be a "better person"..th only thing tha is mind blowingly confusin is th way you hav phrased ur question..lol!

Answer 6

Actions speak louder than words.  Instead of talking about it just do it. live a life of service to others instead of service to self.  If the change is for the better..make it happen..who knows? it could be the most important thing you ever did.

Answer 7

yes you got a 50 50 chance no matter what people willl either like you or they wont so why not have them like you for you or you could stiil have them not like you even if you're somebody else

Answer 8

trying to be a different person caused problems with my friends..

Answer 9

Look just be who are you nothing else. Don't try to do stuff you don't want to do for yourself or others. Just be you

Answer 10

Being me takes enough time and energy , I have no desire to be someone else, and quite frankly ......I like me . smiles

Answer 11

Yeah it can cause problems. People should just be themselves and do and say what it natural.  If you try and be a different person, its almost like the person is acting and wearing a mask.  Then they sometimes go to their other self and so its like two conflicting personalities.    

Answer 12

If you turn yourself to be more positive to catch you dream why not?

Doesn't matter whatever people around you think you are weird.

Problems will occur if you do something you know..improper.