Do you think we are meant to be?

Question

I was in a physical relationship with this guy for 3 months on and off. I got fed up with it since I always wanted more so we stopped talking for a year.

I tried moving on with my life but it was hard since I found myself still thinking about him. Eventually got over him and I started dating here and there but I never found anyone who I click with.

For some reason, I started to think about him again. I started to miss about the times that we had. So I decided to call him to see how he is doing. Surprisingly, he was happy to hear from me and we decided to meet up.

We went to a pub to play pool and catching up on each other. Then at the end of the night we headed to his house to have s*x.

I don't know what to do now because all those old feelings came back. I find myself thinking about him all the time and I fantasize being married to him and live happily ever after. I am scared to tell him how I feel because I don't want to freak him out We haven't spoke for 5 days and I want to call him so badly but I don't want to come off as desperate. He is the love of my life.When ever i see him i get butterflies in stomach.

So how can I win him over?

Answer 1

You can't sweetie. He's not into you. He can use a phone as easily as you can. He's choosing not ot. You were a nice booty call. A man will go after what he wants. You made a mistake by allowing yourself to go back into this relationship and reopen all those old wounds. Now you have to heal all over again. Have some self-respect and walk away. Do not call him! You will look pathetic. One day at a time it will get better but it will be hard. Good luck.  

Answer 2

He's thinking s*x, you're thinking relationship.  

Happens ALL THE TIME, because owmen jump into bed too quickly!!

If you sleep with a guy within the first 2 weeks, IT"S NOT LOVE!!!  You have to actually KNOW a person to fall in love with them.

Men look at s*x as s*x - not as the beginning of a relationship!