For example: parents push their kids to crawl, turn over, roll, walk earlier. Parents also start feeding their children solids earlier. Some parents push their children to potty train as soon as they hit a certain age. Why is there such a demand for babies to develop so quickly? What's wrong with letting them grow at their own pace? I understand if a baby is lacking developmental skills and they're having problems with daily life, this is different.
Who creates this demand for babies to do things when they aren't ready?
I know my mother in law asks if my 9 month old does things yet, and she goes out and buys things to make her achieve new skills. (she tried to buy a walker, but I turned her down) She also said that at 3 months my daughter should be taking liquid rice cereal off a spoon or else she will never be able to eat off a spoon (in her entire life). I am a first time mom and I even knew that wasn't right. It took until almost 4 1/2 months to get my daughter to eat off a spoon. Now I fear the worst: she's going to demand we start potty training soon because she had two of her 4 kids potty trained at 6 months. Don't ask me how, but they had a lot of accidents!
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