Do you think when sb asks people for their OPINIONS,that means he lacks CONFIDENCE?

Question

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Answer 1

No ..... may be jus to get more information....To get the subject from the all views....May be u see something from a certain side but the others add some views that would change your idea....But look for me i don't ask others for opinion EXCEPT those who are trusted and Really in ma deeeeeeeeep heart.......

Look for me may i do so ... even now adays......Cuz  am in a different culture than am used to be in and i dunno how to cope with....Usually i do things that don't fit others and so on.....such ma way of talking...ma dealings...ma clothes..ma way in explanation and lotta things.....

But by all means i do so  to avoid the CRASH of different cultures i used to be in....

I were born and raised up in a country with different cultures which is UAE where there are ...."Lebanase...syrian...Indian....Persi... am now affected by a MIX of cultures...Which also won't cope that Egyptian one......In addition to ma Origin Which is a lso a MIX

In other words....For sure there are  alot of things i were used to do in UAE....and am affected by turkish and moroccon  actions....Even also affected by some European and American Systems....and i think u know that there are a lot of things...and i mean it a LOT of things that won't cope with the egyptian culture....at least in ma way of Dressing....

So i ask to gain information ....and if am convinced by the answer been told to me...so i will change.....and if it didn't convince me and RARELY someone can convince me to do things against ma things i were used to do....Cuz it is ma "Habits "..ma things....Can't avoid it...can't neglect it.......can't Remove it that easily......

So......am still i am....but somehow....Coming to Egypt...Taught me how to Read Qura'an....In Arabic....Cuz i were used to read it in English....Ma mum was translating it to me...To allow me to read it......

Hehe am know With a sheikh to TEACH ME ARABIC AND HOW TO READ A QURA'AN RIGHT....Although it is an Advantage ...which is jus one...but still NICE one...

hehe....Ain't it ?!!!

And For me asking somebody Doesn't mean lacking confidence at all at least for me....am asking to know....am asking to Get the information

That's it

@ Master vampire : Good point....Thanks God am not affected by The Negative Manners

Answer 2

Yeah some people do that because of lack of confidence,..........wait.........i do thaaat you know!!.

i have SOME confidence..but not allot

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Answer 3

No, that make him wants to assure his openion.

Answer 4

Beautifully said from a beautiful mind

Answer 5

no.

a person who lacks confidence doesnt ask people for their opinionso as not to show his feeling .

only when a person has confidence , he can ask others for their opinion.

Answer 6

No.

But we shouldn't let their Negative opinions affect us.

Answer 7

it depends on how you phrase the question..

Answer 8

nope.

Answer 9

it depends on how you deal with their opinion.

if you going into a new experience totally, like being hired in a new place, or starting your academic study, or visiting a new place, or getting married, it is totally normal to get benefit from others past experiences and to be familiar with the conditions you are going to face.

if you are asking about your self, it is not weak. We sometimes seek advice when we feel that what we believe in as set of values (moral, professional, ethical, family, friendship) is not helping when we still face problems in these fields, and as a result we start to think about it and if we still can not figure out why, we seek others opinions. and we call this self-assessment (wakfa ma3 el nafs). the main point to ask someone who is familiar with your character.

the main point, we are not asking others to advice us, or to judge us, we are asking for sharing their experiences, and see how much this experiences is relevant to yours, and to your conditions, and to your character, and to what really makes you happy.  because some ppl tells you things that are some kind of reasoning their situation, but not a real help.  i mean you just have to listen with a critical ear, not a passive one, to filter what is said.

and that's what Yahoo answers is all about :O)

Answer 10

no

he seeks perfection

love

Pluto

Answer 11

mmm..now u will make me think twice before asking anybody for opinion

Answer 12

yes (if he was asking  others opinion abt himself)

no (if he was asking for advice)