Do you try to avoid those who flirt with you when you're married or they are?

Question

I bet most people don't, as they think flirting is so innocent. Some people flirt with everyone & some don't. It is less dangerous, I suppose, when someone flirts with a few people rather than just one. I think it is best to avoid someone who flirts with you if he or she is married or if you are. It can get too dangerous, but then again, one probably thinks it is a break to the montony of the work day and a way to boost your ego. Therefore, it is harmless, I suppose. Would you avoid innocently flirting with a man or woman if you were married or he/she was? What about if you were single and he/she wasn't? I still say most people don't play with fire, especially when they work together. Innocent flirting and not going to lunch with each other is safe, to me. But, nothing else. Agree?

Answer 1

Well I avoid flirting with anybody or letting anyone flirt with me, but that's just my perogative.  I would never want to hurt my husband or make him think that I was even remotely interested in someone else.  Instead, I text him or call him to flirt.  He enjoys getting videos or picture messages or just a sweet I love you message.  :D  We have 2 little girls so to make him smile at work, I'll send him 15 second vids of what the girls are doing.  He loves it  :)

Answer 2

I dont believe in innocent flirting. The main reason is that once you have given in to the flirting, it can only get worse. the person that accepts the flirting or starts the flirting is obviously leading the other person on. People should really evaluate their current relationships and think if the "innocent flirting" is something they are willing to lose a relastioship over. Just my opinion though.

Answer 3

NOPE = I dont blv in innocent flirting. Either you have it in u to cheat or not.

Most ppl do respond to any form of flirting...its human nature. Who doesnt want to be desired or noticed, if even for a moment???

Flirting triggers "sumthing" inside for at least one of the two who flirt. Its simple...dont flirt if your taken.

Answer 4

I think you have to be very careful with flirting because what may start out as innocent can stir unwanted exciting feelings that can be hard to let go of or keep under control. I also think to some extent that flirting when married comes off a bit desperate. It doesn't really look good!

Answer 5

I agree with you, innocent flirting is harmless as long as you don't take it any further. And people flirt because it's fun and because it makes them feel good. It can be tricky, though - sometimes it can be hard to tell if the other person is flirting for the above reasons, or if they want something more.