Do you usually tell people when they hurt your feelings?

Question

Do you usually tell people when they hurt your feelings?

Answer 1

I tell my husband. Sometimes with other people I just hold a grudge. I'm part Italian and we are easily insulted!

Answer 2

No I usually keep it to myself, and I don't think that is what I should be doing. I guess I don't want to be hurtful in return.

Answer 3

I would let the person know how i feel not caring how it makes them feel

because they didn't care about me

Answer 4

Definitely. Being able to communicate our feelings in a calm, mature way is an important sign of adulthood.

Answer 5

yes because they need to know or they will keep doing it

Answer 6

Sometimes.

Answer 7

always!

communication is important in every kind of relationship

if someone hurts you they need to know:

1. they might not know, and if you don't tell them they'll continue to do it

2. if they do know, then you should tell them and give them a chance to apologize

so it is really important you tell them, then you can begin to heal.

Answer 8

Depends.  If it something minor, then no.  It is something that is major, then yes.  If it effects my emotion, and daily activities, I will inform.  If it will potentially impede our relationship, then yes.  If it is repetitive, and this person continues to hurt your feelings more than once, of course.  It is best to nip it in the bud from the beginning, if you can.  Maybe the person is unaware of how you feel or that they hurt your feelings.  

Answer 9

I never tell them even if I want to cuz don't wanna argue, I just back off and continue whatever I was doing...That kinda sucks, I wanna be more open person like most of the people that I know. I don't meen to hurt someone feelings, I rader hurt myself then others but sometimes I want to tell 'em whats bothering me abt their relationship with me, abt the things they say to me and the thinks that make me do it even when I don't want to. Sooo my answer to youre question would be: No. ;)

Take care  

Answer 10

depends on who that is. if they are my close friends or my bf, i will tell them. If not, maybe not, they don't give a **** anyways.

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Answer 11

i just move on and cut them loose

Answer 12

No....

Im a very readable person so if they dont figure it out most likely - they just dont care x

Answer 13

somtimes, it depends

Answer 14

Usually, and the people who know me very well [which are normally the ones to hurt me] just know it.

Answer 15

Depends on the person, how close I want to ever be to them and how they will react.

Can be yes, can be no, can be a little bit of a hint at my being upset and varies on my fuse of the day.

Answer 16

No, I usually just keep it to myself. Which I know isn't good, but sometimes I wonder if they are speaking the truth.