Do you visit your spouses work often?

Question

Do you surprise him for lunch often or do you never visit?

My husband started a new job 2 weeks ago and there is a lady that I'm curious about(my husband seems extremely interested in her). I used to visit his old work about once a month, but am wondering if it's too soon and also if its a good idea to surprise him.

Would you like your spouse to surprise you if you had a crush on a co-worker?

Answer 1

No.

He works in the Chicago Loop for IBM with a bunch of Hindu's and Asians....he is the "Token Hispanic"....LOL!!  .no fun!

Answer 2

I work with 5 men!  My wife can surprise me anytime she wants!

Since she stays home with our 4 kids she doesn't come to my office very often.  When she does it is to leave the kids with me when she goes to the Dr. or some other appointment!  

So, my kids spend more time at my office than my wife!

Answer 3

I work with my spouse everyday but at times there is one lady that likes to flirt and I just smile and go on because I know that he is going home with me. If it's something you used to do than why stop

Answer 4

I don't drop by my husband's work (I work too, so there really isn't any time during the day that I could just randomly go there). If you're not sure if it's a good idea for you to come by your husband's work, just ask him what he thinks. I personally don't like for anyone to "surprise" me at work; when I'm working, I'm working; if my husband wants to come by, he should let me know ahead of time. It has nothing to do with crushes, just good manners.

Answer 5

If you are dropping by to surprise him with lunch that is great but if you are dropping in to spy on him because you don't trust him that really sucks.

Rather than disrupting his day at work, you need to talk to your husband directly about all of this.  

Answer 6

Oh brother. You have an ulterior motive. Don't visit his workplace, you might not like what you see. She is probably beautiful.

Answer 7

why does your husband have a crush on a co-worker?  I work for a large company and there are tons of male co-workers here and my man never gets jealous when I tell him about a guy I might of had a harmless conversation with at work.  I wouldn't care if he visited me bc i have nothing to hide.  But maybe you should talk to your husband and tell him what you think?

I cannot visit my man as he is union HVAC and works everywhere in chicago.