Do you want kids when you grow up ?

Question

yes or no and why

Answer 1

Well, I'm not grown up just yet, I'm only fifteen and the answer is no, I don't want kids. In fact, I would love to have my tubes tied when I'm in my twenties.

Some people wants kids and are meant to be parents, I know I'm not one of those people. When I was about the age of seven, I decided I never wanted to have children because I wanted to pursue my dream career 20 times more than I wanted a family.

Also, I think it would be extremely selfish of me not to have a kid. I mean, when I have my career that I absolutely love I never want to quit it and that means I would never give any time to the children I have. They would see me for five maybe twenty minutes and then bam I'm out the door. And that's not really right or fair.

Now I don't have a problem with parents or people who have a desire to have kids. That's great if people have kids and or want them. However, that's just not me, I don't think I was meant to have kids.

By the way, it's not that I don't dislike kids, I liked kids, they're pretty nice and fun. Inf act kids love me, kids ranging from three - twelve love me for whatever reason I will not understand. Maybe it's because I actually treat them like they are my age - like I'm not above them just because I'm older then them. I had that treatment from other adults or strangers growing up and I absolutely hated it. Just because they're younger doesn't mean they're stupid.

Some eight year olds I know are brighter than some thirty year olds I know!

But anyways, I'm going off topic. To answer your question, no I do not want kids. But I don't have anything against those who do have them or have a desire for them.

Answer 2

yes..i've always liked them

Answer 3

yess

:)

Answer 4

absolutly i definatly want kids there is no doubt in my mind and i can't wait

Answer 5

No, because kids are a huge responsibility. Having kids won't be one of my accomplishments.

Answer 6

When I grow up?  This is the parenting section.  People here are grown and already parenting ~ so ~ my answer is yes.  lol.

I have two kiddos.

Answer 7

I don't know if you meant this or not, but this question is in the Pregnancy and Parenting section.  I think most of the users on here are already grown up, at least in age anyway!  I am 49 years old and have 4 kids, ages 29, 26, 23, and 10 plus a son-in-law and a 15 month old grandson.  I have wanted to be a mom for as long as I can remember.  I have always loved children and it worked out that I found the love of my life early (we married at 18 & 19 years old) and started our family when we were still quite young.  We've been married 31 years now, still very happy and are a close family.

Answer 8

I'm grown up and have a kid and wouldn't change it for the world.  I always knew that I wanted children.