Do you you think i was playing with fire ?

Question

I was friends with a married man. He never introduced me to his family or his wife. They never knew about my existence didn't even knew his phone number and were he lived.

We would just hang out alone. I don't know why I carried on with his company but I really enjoyed his company. Things were strictly platonic until he asked me to give him a BJ. After that, he dropped me like bad habit.

I am so heart and very distressed can't believe I put myself thought that situation. Have you ever been in this situation?

Answer 1

Yes you were playing with fire....and I am not dumb enough to put myself in a situation like this...WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?

Answer 2

Yes you were.

It is like a man living with a woman or roomates. You know what may eventually happen...

Eventually he may leave is wife for you. This is how affairs get started.

Answer 3

yes you were, and no matter what married man or not, never just give out BJ's, they are so disrespectful to yourself if you arent in a relationship or at least having s*x with the guy.

Answer 4

Well no. I've never been that stupid. I guess some must experience things to realize it was not the proper thing to do.

BTW... Did you swallow?

Answer 5

Sometimes it takes a man to make a mistake beyond his comfort zone before he comes to his senses and makes a decision.

Whilst he was OK flirting with you and probably fanticising of what might happen, the minute it became reality he realised his mistake.

He may never make such a mistake again.  So leave him alone and get a guy that is available.  If you were his wife what would you think about him now?  What would you think about the girl?  

Do you want to be thought of that way?  Have some self respect and accept the new reality that he is not for you.

Answer 6

We have all done things we regret. Yes, hanging out alone with a married man, who clearly intended to keep you hidden from his wife, is playing with fire, you got burned. The key is to learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them. Married men, regardless of how pathetic their unhappy homes are, are off limits. There are plenty of single guys you can have a future with. Value yourself. You aren't a s*x toy for some prick.  

Answer 7

Yeah you were playing with fire.  You have to wonder about a married man that hangs out alone with a single woman.

He obviously didn't respect you or his wife, but live and learn.  You can't change the past, you can only learn from it.

PS. How could you be friends with someone and not know their phone number!?

Answer 8

A male "friend' made a pass at me. I was insulted to think he actually believed I would do a married man. I thought he had more respect for me. Apparently your "friend" doesn't respect you or his marriage. Sad.

Answer 9

To simply answer your question....yes, you were playing with fire.

Answer 10

Did you not ask this before or are there lots of silly girls out there blowing married men and getting dumped or am I getting confused???? SAme answer for them as for you. Stop blowing married men and get a sense of your self worth and again... stop blowing married men!!! AGHHHHHH!!!!!!!

Answer 11

You just got comfortable with his company!  We as women may have to draw the line somewhere.  No matter how comfortable you were he's still a man and he's still married.

So he felt it was ok to go there with you.  That's probably all he wanted n-e ways.

Answer 12

Maybe because you didn't swallow?? No, I'm just kidding. l

Yes you were playing with fire and now you have to live with the fact that you gave a BJ to a married man. Sucks right? (No pun intended)

Answer 13

Yes similar in ways.  He only wanted s*x, he go a bj instead and now he's done with you.  You'll have to forget him because it's over.  Next time don't play with married men.