This is frustrating! Anyway, my daughter is very smart, and either on target or ahead of average developmental goals for her age (2). Except for one tiny thing... she calls our cats "meow meows." Now, I never thought this was a problem, because I'm the one who TAUGHT her to call them meow meows rather than cats. It is just a cutesy nickname that I have used for them since before she was even born. We have two cats, and although both have names, we very rarely use their names, and we ALL call them meow meows. I can't remember the last time I have verbalized in front of her that they are CATS. Well my daughter's physician picked up on the fact that she calls our cats meow meows rather than cats, and now she thinks she is developmentally challenged. He spoke to me about it, and I tried to explain why she is calling them that, but he wouldn't listen, he said I was being defensive, and that I shouldn't take offense if my daughter has a developmental issue. He said she needs more testing (more money!!!) because it is a sign of a developmental disorder maybe autism and I probably need therapy to deal with my issues over this (!!!). I'm very frustrated because I think he's making a huge deal over one cutesy nickname, and that a lot of kids have cutesy nicknames for things (bottles, blankets, pillows, whatever, right?), and he wouldn't listen to me when I tried to explain that I was with her 24/7, and that I 100% did not think there was an issue. Do you think I should switch doctors? He wants all of these developmental tests done on her, just because she calls our cats "meow meows." Heck, I taught it to her, because I say it just as a cute nickname, and I'm an adult! Does he think I am developmentally challenged too? Would you switch doctors over this?
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