Does Anyone Else Find These "What kind of black girls do you like?" Questions A Bit Pathetic??

Question

i mean at first i kind of understood : people getting into the idea of interracial relationships! im a black girl and ive been dating outside my race since like forever and i think its great that people are becoming more open to the idea. not everyone of course.

however its becoming a bit pathetic in my eyes for black girls to actually be trying to fit a certain profile acceptable to the white community. thats so degrading! the answers that ive seen are also appalling. obviously there are lots of ignorant people on here who actually believe you can act a certain race. these are culturally deprived morons whose advice isnt worth ****.

basically if you click with someone then thats it. im 18 and ive dated outside my race my whole life but i dont go out with the mindset of "i only wanna date whitey". lts all about how well you click and also what environment youre in. i dunno just rubs me the wrong way : \

so please go on and ask whatever questions you like but i just had to ask if anyone else agreed with me, especially my fellow african americans? should girls be concerned about what certain races think of them and trying to live up to those standards? and isnt the concept of "acting white" is the most moronic thing in the world?! come on people. get it together.

Answer 1

I agree with you. it's just an attempt to force women into self-doubt & low self-esteem. If a male can get a female to feel that she's lucky to get his attention, she's easier to manipulate. This is true regardless of race and maybe even across all cultures.

Answer 2

Those types of questions are usually made by trolls who use this site to vent their anger, so I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 3

I totally agree. I think that ANY ONE who trys to date outside of their race should be themselves and stop trying to fit into what 5 little people on Yahoo!Answers say.

Answer 4

anyone can date whoever they want and if they wanna date 'between races' then it should be accepted, I know that's not the point here, but my arguement is that it shouldn't be an issue, it shouldn't even need debating 'which black girls you prefer' It should be which girls do ou prefer. That really is astounding, we're in the 2000's nd the issue is still being raised *sigh*

Answer 5

to answer d main question: no, out of all d  female races, black girls r seen 2 rarely date outside their race which would prob upset d guys who do date outside their race.

the concept of actin white.... what can i say its a real thing if u make it for example: actin black iz usually associated wit "ghetto"

Answer 6

I am a Black  with Dutch and Native American decent . I am usually around black people but more comforatble with white people. I agree with you. People say I don't "act black". You can't act black. It's just that most black people think that being ghetto is apart of our race and that being educated is for white people. I don't have a perm , I don't use slang, and I am educated. White people like that but not my on race.

Answer 7

I hate these questions, because it says that black girls have to fit a certain standard to date these superior people.  We are, basically, good peoplle rather we are from the hood or the suburbs.  Anybody, who doesn't appreciate us can suck rocks.

Answer 8

Date who you want to date BUT dont change for anyone.

Answer 9

Those are trolls, that say them bad things.

You can date whoever you want its a preference, dont listen to them.

I agree

no you should just be yourself

acting 'white' is a sterotype, I agree it is sooo stupid.