Does My Best Friend Like Me?

Question

I've never had a Girlfriend but she is my best friend. I'm 16 and she is 15. We hang out and talk all the time, but she has a boyfriend and it's about her 3rd for the year and it's just every time i went to tell her i liked her she got with someone and i lost the courage. Just before she got with her newest bf (one of my friends) she ask me if i liked her and i told her how i felt, but she said she didn't feel that way about me. we are still best friends but it seem when she is with me she is flirting(even though she said she isn't). and when we hang out she always says she "loves me". i'm just so confused.

I'm not the kind of person who goes for looks(even though she is really hot) i like her for her personality and how she makes me feel.

Do i have a chance?

Answer 1

I'm sorry, but if she already told you that she doesn't feel "that way" about you then you should believe her.  You're in the friend zone.  

Answer 2

not trying to be a frown clown, but just because she says she loves you, doesn't exactly mean, she loves you like that. SHE COULD THO. im not saying she doesn't, but im just trying to tell you that it doesnt' always mean that.

P.S : Violence is never the answer when it comes to dating.

Answer 3

You have all the chance buddy.

Just talk to her in alone and tell her ur feelings, u looking in her eyes n she in urs....

she will definitely say yes.

BEST OF LUCK BUDDY

Answer 4

Hope makes the world go around son.  But as she is already into a number of boys, and she tells you she does not feel that way for you, take her word for it and find another girl to be a bf to.  Oviously she loves you but only as a FRIEND, who may be a boy or a girl.  So save the friendship and look for the other relationships outside of this girl, unless you can't stop thinking about her, then I suggest you slowly start breaking away from the girl so that you don't hurt yourself or her in process.  Just cause you love someone, does not mean they are obliged or suppose to love you the same way.  At least she is still a best friend, so save it and find a girl to go out with.  Unless you give a chance to other girls, how would you know if she is the only one that makes you feel this way.

Answer 5

i'm sorry but she already rejected you. this girl only sees you as a friend. i know it's hard but she loves you like a brother and a friend, and it's hard for her to see past that. girls say i love you to their friends all the time. you already told her and she doesn't feel that way. you keep alive the hope that she's flirting so you can't face the fact that she doesn't like you that way. i'm sorry but you have to let her go. only once you let go of her can you look around and find another girl. there are plenty of girls out there and one day, you'll find the right one. i'm not saying there's zero hope, maybe someday she'll see you as a boyfriend, like in a movie. but this is real life, so for your own sake, don't keep your hopes up.