Does s*x really matter?

Question

Alright lets cut to the chase! There's this nice, attractive, funny and educated guy I met some months back. We get along great but there's just one thing that's getting to me, and that's the fact that he's no good in bed!!!!! yeah it was a one time thing and yeah maybe the next time it'll get better, but his member was small and he came fast as h**l lol...what would be your advice on this situation? and to those that have been through the same situation what did you do?

He text me the next day and was like "you got me wanting more" I didn't know what to say so I waited a couple of hours and I text back not mentioning his text he had sent. Were friends but it hurts me to think that maybe I'm being shallow:(

Answer 1

if you along with the guy and you have great chemistry together, that will last you for a lifetime. and yes, s*x is important, but that is something that you can teach him,  teach him what you like, teach him how to please you.

we are not born knowing about s*x, we all have to learn.

Answer 2

Yeah that wouldn't be cool.. I mean honestly, whats more important.. a guy who will respect you (well I hope he respects you.. that text you mentioned got me wondering..) and listen to you and stuff, but that's not great at s*x.. OR would you prefer a guy who's good in the sack but is a complete a**hole and ONLY wants you for s*x? I mean s*x doesn't last all THAT long no matter how much stamina you have, and when you aren't having s*x all those other good or bad qualities come into play.

Answer 3

there are s*x doctors that can help with ejaculation problems

Answer 4

s*x matters, come on you know that it does, its not being shallow,its being honest and knowing your  preferences.

Answer 5

I have only been with one guy (my husband). s*x does matter lol. It would suck if he wasn't any good. But I got lucky ;)

Answer 6

ya it matters beacuse you cant trust someone thats is not willing to do that for you

Answer 7

s*x is 50% of the relationship, if he or she sucks then im sorry break it off, it will only lead to cheating!

Answer 8

i think it's important because it's certainly not something you can get past. it's a conscious thought that you're having and it just doesn't dissolve like that.

i think you're going to need to talk to him and find ways to show him how to have good s*x. maybe your next yahoo question should be "how to teach your boyfriend to be good in bed?" XD

haha but if you really like him, it's worth it. i think most people in relationships go into a relationship with their own style and as the relatinoship progresses, it neutralizes.

so just see how it goes and if you can get passed it by actually taking some initiative then you'll be happy

good luck