Does a person drinking and smoking a lot- turn you, away from liking that person, even if they are nice/cute?

Question

like they are like you- similar- like good hearted and stuff- they just drink and smoke a lot- get wasted a lot- and party a lot!

Answer 1

Honestly, I don't like smoking or drinking so I wouldn't date anyone who does those things even if they were nice or cute.

Answer 2

smoking is not attractive. I am ok with drinking and partying it up. I mean, come on you have to have fun! haha. So no, because most young people drink anyways. But to me smoking is so unattractive, so I wouldn't like a guy that smokes. Once in a while smoking is ok, but not everyday, if he relies on it, don't go for him.

Answer 3

it all depends on how much i like the guy.

Answer 4

Anything that's excessive is bad. The quantity whether too much or a-lot-of is relative or subjective but in any case, what should really matter is the kind of person he/she is made of.

Answer 5

Yes it does. I can't be with someone who isn't themselves more often then not.

Answer 6

my bf smokes all the time and drinks now and then (but he is 21) and i am still extremely happy to b with him. If you really do like the person, i think it is extremely easy to look past the fact they drink or smoke.

Answer 7

yes

my old crush dipped and that was such a HUGE  turn off

Answer 8

smoking is a defient turn off i don't care how cute i don't date smokers or alcoholics

Answer 9

depends on how much they drink the party as long as i can come but the smoking is the turn off. I'm a protective type

Answer 10

id say yes. i do drink at times but i cant take the smoking

part. it will give me sinusitis and i just cant bare with that.

it's too unhealthy.

Answer 11

No 'cos I drink and smoke so..

4-5 f**s a day is nothing and if he only drinks on weekends then it's not that big of a deal?!

Answer 12

For the smoking it's a yes, but if he drinks only socially then that's fine because I'm sure everyone drinks socially.

Hope this answers your question:)

Answer 13

Honestly, I don't like smokers, but if they have a good heart, then they have a good heart right?

If they tried quitting just for me, I'd be very happy!

And for drinkers, social drinkers I'm okay with, but if they're an alcoholic then no..

Answer 14

Of course! Just think about it......stank breath, nasty teeth, health problems, and more. I wouldnt go out with anyone who drinks or smokes

Answer 15

if my bf drank & smoked i would dump him the second i found out.

Answer 16

definatly. i hate it. and im young soo like definatly a turn off. its gross. and stupid so yea

Answer 17

actually i like it when guys do, there funner to be around, and more out going