Does age really matters in having someone to love for good?

Question

I met this guy 24yr old and I'm 30 already.He made a deal to me to be his gf for 2 weeks..so stupid I agreed..bad thing we fell in love on each other..just that he has a gf of 4 yrs already so I told him after 2 weeks..I won't be seeing him again nor text him and that everything is over...now it's over but still wants to be my friend..i don't think I can handle the situation so I cut our connection totally...now we're both hurting but we can do nothing..we need to put ourselves on the right places..and I don't know what others would say knowing that I'm a girl 30 yr old, single mom and he's just 24 and single.pls help..did i do the right thing?

Answer 1

Yes you have done the right thing. He's too young to be having a serious relationship, and it's not just you and him in a relationship either. You have a child to consider too - and if he doesn't want any responsibilities, then you are better off without him.

Answer 2

Well first of all age is just an number if you really love someone it shouldnt matter but if you have a kid and he wants no resposiblity then i would say yes you did the right thing cuz you need a guy that will love you and help you raise this child but if you really love him and he really loves you age is jsut a number.... But if he already has a gf for 4yrs i would say you did the right thing.....

But remeber for any other relationships you get into age is just a number!

You did the right thing though! Dont worry!

Hope i helped!=)

Answer 3

yes you did the right thing.. but in your last sentence you say he is 24 and single..is that right?  i thought he was seeing someone, either way tho...if he had a gf of 4 years, and simultaneously was dating you, that's a horrible indicator that if he did it to a gf of 4 yrs, he will do it to any girlfriend, including you, so I would stay away and a clean break is, in my experience, the best and easiest way to get over him and on with your life.

Answer 4

I WOULD SAY YES ,,BUT U KNOW I F HE REALLY LOVED YOU LIKE U LOVE HIM HE CAN EASILY GIVE UP THE GF TO B WITH YOU,,BUT  THERE IS NO WAY U TWO CAN B JUST FRIENDS,I THINK IT WOULD END UP BING LIKE A BOOTY CALL TO HIM,,HE SHOULD HAVE NEVER ASK U TO B HIS GF FOR 2WEEKS I F HE LOVED HIS GF LIKE HIS ACTING LIKE HE DOSE NOW,,THE AGE DOESNT MATTER ,,ITS LOVE ,,IF ITS REAL ON HIS PART,,,BUT JUST REM EMBER,,"WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND,,,HE CHEATED ON HIS GF,,HE MIGHT DO THE SAME TO YOU,,ONLY WITH A YOUNGER GIRL...PEACE

Answer 5

Yes,Yes,Yes!

Answer 6

You did the right thing by ending it but you totally messed up by starting it too... there is no way you can befriend someone you love. If he calls you again tell him ur gonna call his gf if this nonsence does not stop (and mean it) He's using you to get what his gf cant give him. But ur not getting anything for it other than drama. Call it off, change ur number and keep what I said in mind, you have a kid to worry about- let him worry about himself, since that is after all, the only thing he cares about, himself.

Answer 7

Hi ,I know alot of people consider age to be a problem , But love knows no age- Are you happy with him? Are you scared? Tell him these things and your fears-But don't let fears run your life for you .You will never be happy that way-But you have to take it in consideration he has a girlfriend for 4 years.You don't need someone already taken-But age is just a number.Don't let peoples talk of age stop you from having a life you want-But don't date someone already taken-