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Does anybody else think this is somewhat hypocritical?

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Okay, so there's this girl in my class, that I hang out with sometimes, never one on one but in a group. Let's call her "Claire." Okay, so she's always giving me grief for who I like, and one time she even said "We're going to get you someone to crush on that you can date." (the guy I like is unattainable but I like him anyway). I tell her it bugs me and it's even made me cry a couple times. I mean I don't give a c**p if I can't date him, he's really special to me. Well, anyhoo, some other girl confessed to liking some guy in my class who's REALLY annoying and everyone knows it. Do you know what "Claire" said? She's like "Well, that's okay, because you can't help who you like." She says this all the time to other people but when my crush comes up, she gets all up in my mug about it. WTF? Does the "you can't help who you like" thing not apply to me or something? And I'm not like saying it's something about ME, I just think it's unfair that she gives me trouble for who I like but then when another girl likes someone, "Claire" brushes it off with "well you can't help who you like." Do you think this is hypocritical and what should I say to her next time she does this?

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  1. Sounds like she has a thing for him. Next time she says anything to you, just tell her that her opinion does not count. If she cant be a real friend and back you 100% on your feelings for someone else, then she is not a friend worth having. But in your case, it sounds like she has the hotts for him. You might even ask her if she does like him, that way it will all be out on the table.  


  2. shes probably just jelous!

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