Does anyone else despise their sister in law??

Question

I need some sister in law horror stories to make me feel better! My husband's twin sister is such a rotten person. We were totally fine til I got pregnant last year, and since then she has had a huge issue with the fact that my husband puts me and our daughter first. Not to say he doesn't try to maintain a good relationship with his sister, because he does. She just can't handle sharing him apparently. We moved away shortly after I gave birth to a new state. It was actually my husband's idea to do this. So what does my sister in law do? She tells all of our mutual friends that i forced my husband to move and threatened to divorce him and never let him see our daughter if he didn't. Are you kidding me?!??! Now her latest fabrication is that I have cancer. I don't even know where she comes up with this c**p. I was sick for a couple months back in March due to a virus. Well I got a call from an old mutual friend whom I haven't spoken with since before I moved. So there was no way for her to know I had been sick, because I obviously didn't tell her. Her first words were "Oh my god, are you ok??" And I said "yes, why?" and she said "well 'kim' said you have cancer" and I couldn't believe my ears. What kind of sick person would lie about such a horrible thing???? Is she really that threatened by me? And at first, my husband was totally supportive of me, and just 2 mins ago he says "Well are we sure your friend isn't making it up" He's gotta be joking. He just can't stand to believe his sister could be so evil. I don't even know what to do. Should I confront her??

Answer 1

I'd tell you horror stories about mine, but she'd probably have me murdered.  

Here are a couple of snippets:

1. When I was having a heart-to-heart with my mom about going on birth control, she walked in and blurted out "You know you just want to go on the pill so you can w***e around!"

2. My husband was in a car accident and totaled his vehicle, and when he walked in the door, she didn't ask if he was alright, she said, "So, are we gonna go out to eat now or what?!"

3. She bad-mouths my parents even though they have been nothing but kind, considerate, generous, and tolerant.

4. She never allows my brother to have a private phone call.  EVER.  He always puts us on speakerphone so that she can hear everything, and she also interrupts or distracts him when I am trying to have a conversation.

5. She wore the world's ugliest dress, and flat-out refused to have her hair or makeup done for my wedding family portrait.

6. She intercepts Emails that I write to my brother, and either responds FOR him, or deletes them altogether.

Answer 2

Eventually people will know what a nut case she is. You really cant do anything about people like her. Their minds dont operate on the same plane of existence. She is a bona fide nut case and you should thank your god you dont leave around her because you dont want someone like her around your child. People like that are frightening in a way because they are unpredicatable. She could have some brain imbalance or something. I would ignore communications about her or from her.