Does anyone else ever feel like? ?

Question

Ever feel like your not there when your talking to someone. I mean like when your having a conversation with someone and everything there saying makes sense but it's not registering in your mind b/c you feel lost and not there.

B/c ever sense I lost my mom I feel like nothings real and I'm lost and always questioning why where we all put here. I'm not saying I'm going crazy I just feel like nothing makes sense and nothings real anymore.

So really I'm just wondering does anyone ever get this kind of feeling, as to where you feel lost and nothing makes sense?

Again Sorry If my question is confusing but thanks for your answers ♥

Answer 1

I know exactly how you feel.  I lost my mum last December and it was the worst time of my life.  

This is going to sound like a cliche but time does heal, it may take a while but it will get easier.  There will come a time when she's no longer the first thing on your mind when you wake up, and the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep.  But until then you really should wallow in whatever emotion you're feeling, if you try to get over your loss too quickly you'll never heal.  It will get better, honest.      

Answer 2

I get that a lot. But for the different reason.

You need to get out and do something out of your habit. Minds like that happens if you are within your comfort zone. You need to trigger the thoughts by being in something out of your comfort zone.

Oh, and I'm sorry for your lost.....

Answer 3

First, I'm so sorry about the loss of your mother. (((hugs)))

Second, your question is not confusing at all.  I've had conversations where I wasn't "all there" because my mind was elsewhere.  Having just lost your mother, it's normal that you're mind is elsewhere -- you're in a daze.  You're questioning the very foundation of your life.  It's normal that mundane conversations about everyday things will be of little interest to you right now.

I hope that every day you start to feel better.  They say that time heals all, and I hope that is true with you.  ((Hugs))

Answer 4

I'm certain that there is something wrong with you.

Answer 5

Yeah I understand what you mean. Sometimes things just take a little while for you to get used to. And the death of your mom is a pretty big deal. So it's understandable.

You should know though that your mom wouldn't want this. Obviously you are unhappy, and do you think that your mom would want you to feel unhappy on her account (or for any reason, for that matter)?

Likely not.

Just know she'll always be with you. And try to start adjusting without her. That's what she would want.

Answer 6

I do know what you mean. Sometimes I will be talking to someone, and I will be acknowledging what they're saying, but nothing is going "in". And afterwards I'll have no idea what the conversation was about. And if I remember parts of it, I have no idea how we got onto the subject, and I don't remember how I replied to any questions. Normally I get this when there is something on my mind. That's perhaps why because of your unfortunate and sad loss you feel like this - because no doubt you are constantly thinking about your Mother and therefore you end up not being able to concentrate on the conversation properly.

Perhaps when your Mother has been passed for longer, you will be able to engage in conversation a little better and remember what is being said etc and not feel so "lost". It it completely natural to feel like this though.

I would suggest, if you haven't already, to contact someone to talk to e.g. counselling. You may not feel like you need it but it is often very helpful and might help you.  

Answer 7

((BIG HUMUNGO BEARHUGS)) and a kissy on the cheek*muah*

honestly no i havent.but im sure we all go to questioning as to why we re here no earth. i mean seriously. why are we here?