Does anyone else get annoyed with a grown mama's boy?

Question

my boyfriend is such a mama's boy and it drives me crazy. shes jealous and tries to compete but for what, he puts her first anyways!! and to top it off im 7 months prego with his baby!! he gets offended if i say anything that has to do with his mom, even if what i'm saying isnt really bad!! for example, she sold her car and he just bought a new one (that she cosigned for) and she takes the car EVERYDAY while he's working.. hello!!! he's my ride home from work. i guess 7 month prego WORKING girlfriend has to walk home after work so that stay at home mommy can have fun shopping all day in her son's car!! then he gets mad at me for speaking up, i mean to the point where he seriously wants to break up and uses profane language!! am i wrong for being frustrated?? or should i leave while i still have the chance??

Answer 1

well what u need to do is get a real man not a girl that is still a moma`s boy or for that still living with his moma. its going to be hard but get a real man and move on and if not than just try something dealing with his mom so that maybe she wouldnt want to compete

Answer 2

Sorry, this is never going to get better unless he puts you first in all things. Sounds like he isn't going to do that - you are in for years of misery - you need a husband not a mama's boy. He is beyond redemption. This isn't a healthy or normal situation. Get out. You've been warned.

Answer 3

I am going through the same thing!  My fiance's Mom still hasn't cut the cord and he's 30!!  He talks to her on a daily basis(she lives out of State, thank goodness)but actually confide in her more than me!  He talks to her about everything, when he should talk to me.  We have a 2 year old daughter, and his Mother is clearly the top thing on his list and he on hers!  They say our daughter comes first, but this is completely not true!

I am sorry to say, unless you can learn to deal with it, it WILL NOT change!  It's sad to say but I truly believe if it came down to it, he would choose her over myself and our baby daughter....

I am close to my family, but there comes a point when it's going to far!  And they clearly cross those boundaries..

Answer 4

Go to counseling.

Answer 5

Well, I would try and talk things out with his mother. I know this might be scary but who knows maybe you could get her to see things your way. I do not blame you if you want to get out, because all of this seems a little unnecessary for a 7 month pregnant person to go through. I mean you should be getting all the attention cause you are carrying his baby. But if you do leave, be careful how you do it and make sure you have a lawyer, because last thing you want is that Monster-in-law and awful mama's boy to come after your baby, I have seen it happen. If she can control him down to his car than she can talk him into anything, so your key is to get to the mother in law...She is in control here. I know this all scary and I am really sorry that you are having to go through this. Where is your mom is she around to help you through this? I would try to find someone to talk to about this and a reliable ride too.

Answer 6

OMG get out now! I cant believe that sh*t! you AND your baby should be #1 in his life! Im in total aw that he is like that. Totally co dependant or so it sounds his mom must be some kinda manipulator maybe you should give him an a choice of he starts putting you first or your outta there and if he doesnt choose you then he doesnt love you like he should and you dont rally want him anyway because you deserve to better than second place in your mans heart i mean every man loves his mom but you shouldnt have to compete with her because the love he has for you is a different kind of love maybe not stronger just different and she shouldnt be jealous of you unless she has some kinda messed up affection for her own son right?