Does anyone else think it is very rude...lol?

Question

for someone to just remove you as a Contact.......and you're left wondering what the heck you have done to offend them?

At least I, and others, have sort of explained in our Profile.....

Thanx in advance for all answers!

Answer 1

People stop answering my questions all the time.

Answer 2

i was mortified.

: )

Answer 3

i thought you said you were removing

all contacts and fans a while back cos

you don't seem to be on my list.

well i never removed you from my contacts

and i cant add you cos you aint allowing it

Answer 4

I agree with you. I felt so bad when I found out that one of my contacts removed me without saying a word...

Answer 5

I  dont check so i dunno..but if so oh well.

Answer 6

Nothing to get upset about, it's not as if they were your chums. You really don't know them and they don't know you.

Answer 7

if someon leaves as a contact on my profile, I couldn't care less

Answer 8

Everyone is different. There is nothing called offense; just a matching problems.

In Chinese old saying: mixed for too long will lead to separation.

Perhaps, it is also a kind of love. When friendship developed to some level, one don't want to go further because they fear on the loss and the damage on the other side. The further development would only lead to lost.

In addition, if one want to trace a high value goal of life, he/she will leave you.

You should consider it as a natural divorcement and try to find others.

Answer 9

i'd be a bit upset and kinda mad! it's a bit unfair to just end it like that, but then again i have no contacts!!! :(

Answer 10

maybe you haven't done anything to offend them

They could have just been clearing out their fans to start over again

Answer 11

Hope it wasn't me Suki-your a favourite contact will look

Answer 12

I never notice.

I get a new account so often, I can never remember who was a contact and who wasn't!

Be wary of people who connect and then remove themselves after a short time, they are just  going through your Q and A's to report.

Answer 13

I don't allow contacts in the first place, I am a very private person.

Answer 14

by posting such a notice it would seem your telling the troll find my questions and report me. Or for the cunning one who wishes to pass the blame to someone else not report until you take back the contacts. Then hit when you add one or two and convince you that it is that one person who has been reporting you all the time.

Troll sees notice on profile

A) Reports everything you post

B) Does not report anything that poster posts to give impression that troll in contacts is correct

C) Troll waits till contacts restored then reports all, again convincing user that the report troll was in the contacts.

Surely by posting a notice like that your telling the troll that your thinking A) a troll is in your contacts when may very well not have been. B) That they know who some of the people are that worry about a troll. C) There is another way that a troll can spot when a user they are following has posted a question you know. I am not going to say it here do in case they have not thought of it.

Answer 15

People aren't going to agree with you on everything.

And some people can be very unforgiving. I just remind myself that there's 6 billion other people in this world most of whom Ive never even met so I'm not gunna lose sleep over 1 individual.

Answer 16

Only if they are a really close contact who I speak to in the outside world. I would wonder what I had done to upset them then

Answer 17

No not really.

If they announced it to you then you might try to stop them. They made their mind up and that's that.

It's their prerogative.

Answer 18

It's bitchy...yes. But maybe they have a hard time confronting people...

Josh;)

Answer 19

I'd never remove you, but alas I got removed!!!

And then I consistently get violated twice for a question or an answer

*sighs*

Answer 20

Don't take it personally :) people are like that and just breathe and move on. If they let you go they arent worth knowing anyway :)

Answer 21

yes it is very rude,

but dont worry it is their loss not yours  

Answer 22

Can't say it worries me in the slightest, it does not affect my life in any shape or form!

Answer 23

no I dont think its rude...because I dont really get the contacts thing here...its a Q&A site...if you want contacts, theres chat sites/rooms etc...I dont see as its very relevant in here...but whatever floats your boat