Does anyone feel like this too?

Question

i have this friend, i have known her since nursery and we only started talking properly the beginning of this year, she is a year older than me, she is amazing, always there for me when i need someone,

i spend most of my time with her, and hate being without her

cos i get so frustrated

she doesnt compare to anyone and she means the world to me.

i just get annoyed when i dont get a text off her or she doesn't ring me.

im normally the one who contacts

and sometimes i think if i didnt contact her would we still be as close!

i send her really nice texts and i get them in return,

she says things like 'you mean alot to me' and things like that,

but i don't know whether to believe her sometimes

cos i hate it when she says the same to other people, i just get that paranoid feeling.

at the moment i would say i was the only true friend she has got,

cos she has hadd troubles with her rescent best friends.

does anyone feel the same about their true friend?

cos i feel like im on my own when i talk to people from my school.

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Answer 1

being a best Friend doesn't mean to control her and get jealous when she has other Friends, that mean that u dont have any friends except her and u feel lonely

everybody need their own space so take it easy and let her breath  

Answer 2

I think you need to back off a bit. You seem really insecure about your friendship, but you shouldn't be. If she's a real best, and not just telling you that, then your friendship isn't going to end if you don't text her one night or something.

I used to have two friends in the same situation. Except it was a little different because the best friend treated the other girl really badly. But basically one friend contacted the other all the time, and it got really overwhelming for the other friend (despite the fact that she wasn't as nice to her as she should be). So there are people out there who have felt the same as you have, but it didn't end well.

I hate it when my best mate forgives people who treat him like ****, but its a good friendship because it works both ways. He texts me and I text him, and if one of us doesn't get a reply, it isn't a huge deal. I think if you don't give her a little space sometimes, you could push her away.

Answer 3

well i would let her do her thing cause i am not God

so stop being so obsessive

if you are a true friend be one

dont expect for her to do everything inreturn cause she's got a life too

so chill

she will text back

just give her some time