I was married to someone for many years and I put up with his abusive behavior. He was physically, verbally, and mentally abusive to me and my children. Although, he was a whole lot more abusive to me than my children. Today, I just started asking myself why did I stay married to him all those years? It was pure h**l. I feel really stupid for not leaving earlier.
Actually, he wanted divorce too, but he never mentioned it seriously.
He was threatening me to prove to the court that I am crazy. He was saying that he would take my children away from me and I would never get a penny from him ever.
Now, I have sole custody of my children. He was only allowed to visit them in a public place once every two weeks. He also has to pay child support.
As soon as we got divorce, he moved to a different state. My children are happy that he is far away and don't have to put up with his abusive behavior.
Today, I asked myself, why didn't I leave him earlier. I feel really dumb. But I had no self-confidence, because of the mental abuse.
Do you ever ask yourself why didn't you leave earlier?
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