Does anyone have any advice 4 me ?!?!?!?

Question

i just wanted 2 ask if any one has any suggestions 4 me rite now me and my girlfriend are better than we've ever been and and i'm in a situation were i have a job but i can also get 2 jobs that pay alot more one pays 10 dollars an hour and the other pays 8.50 an hour but with these 2 jobs i'm scared that it's gonna bring us farther apart from each other and thats something i dont wanna do any advice???

Answer 1

Ok, I can only imagine that based on the fact that $10 and $8.50 an hour you classified as a 'lot more' money, that you can't be very old.

If you are still in high school, your main job right now should be 'student'.  If not, then you have to be able to support yourself.

I've been there, though.  You want to spend every waking moment together, right?  Can't stand to be apart, right?

But how great would it be if, when you do get time to spend together, you have a few extra $ to spend on a nice date together.

Just IMHO.

Answer 2

If you need to work 2 jobs to pay your bills and get ahead right now, you need to do it.

If a small thing like that will drive the two of you apart. What would happen in the future when something major happens. If this ruins the relationship, I hate to say it, but it may be for the better.

Answer 3

How sweet of you to worry about your GF and how more money will affect your lives. Most people would just go for more money.

I'm curious: Why would your working bring you further apart? If that's the case, perhaps your relationship isn't as secure as you hope it to be. What is she doing all day? Doesn't she work, too? You can always schedule time together when you're not working if you plan carefully. Make sure she's in on the decision so it's not something she views as you doing by yourself, and keep in touch with her and make sure that she doesn't feel neglected. Then things will be fine.