I wish to know how I can be well liked because I am tired of people disrespecting me all the time. I feel as if I am weak because that is the reality. I really desire to be cool and am just seriously tired of how people come at me or how they see me. I always think to myself why can I not be liked by people and why can I not ever be respected by people. I am fed up and I know that there is someone out there that can help me with my problem because I feel frustrated, worried, miserable, and even worthless sometimes. Do not know what I can seriously do sometimes but there is this person deep inside of me to just follow my heart and be real with certain situations. Do not know what I can do because I feel as if people are trying to dislike me but I could really care less and would like to find a way to be immune to it and not let it affect me. I have heard that people that are disrespected is because they allow themselves to. I wish to learn how to not allow myself to be disrespected and just be a grand person. I know I should not try to be something I am not but I just desire to be liked. I should also just try to be myself but I just can not. I always feel this feeling of empty whenever I have to encounter someone messing with my prologue or trying to defend myself. I guess in true reality I just do not accept my punishment sometimes when I imply bad things about people as a way to defend myself when they imply bad things about me thus making me worse and making me feel worse. In addition, I just desire to stop being sophomoric. I am a sophmoric 19 year old sophomore at Oxnard College and I wish to stop being childish and just be a real person. I have always felt immature and sophomoric because I do not comply with certain situations and deal with things in a bad way. What can I do to stop being sophomoric and just be a person of good heart. People try to s***w me over so much it is not even funny and I wish to be liked by someone. I am tired of feeling immature and having this strange belief that people dislike me. Can anyone out there give me any pointers on how I can be liked by people and be seen as a noble person. I know that strength is sticking with something even when everyone expects you to quit but I do not truly understand that. I am just feeling so plain and wish that there would be someone that can truly help me in a way which will expand my opportunities to become known as a great person. All in all, I wish to know how I can solve situations when people are messing with me (whether in a playful sense or serious sense) without using violence and to do it peacefully.
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