Does anyone out there have an unrequited love? ?

Question

Someone you met at the wrong time in your life but have feelings for? Do you talk to or see this person? Do the two of you ever speculate about what would have been, could have been, or might still be one day?

Answer 1

Yes but I have one that's worse. He liked me too but I didn't know it until it was too late. Now I'll never know. But it's all good because I married a great man and I love him so much that I can't imagine my life without him.  

Answer 2

Yes, I'm going through exactly that right now. It's so wrong for me to have feelings for this person but no matter what I do I just can't get them out of my mind.  This person doesn't feel exactly the same way about me.  I do talk to him but it only makes my feelings for him get stronger.  I hate it. What sucks is that I can't avoid him cause he's kind of like family so he's pretty much going to be around all the time.  

AND I ALWAYS WONDER WHY HE DOESN'T LOVE ME!!  I know he finds me extremely attractive but that's it. Nothing more.

I just hope one day I can forget about him.

Answer 3

totally yes!  We talked for awhile via phone and then I decided not to see or talk to him anymore b/c it was ruining my marriage. Always think about what could have been though

Answer 4

we didnt meet at the wrong time nec. we reconnected at the "wrong" times in our life. He will always be very special to me, put it that way. Has been for almost 20 years now and we still talk occasionally. Life works in very mysterious ways though. Him and i reconnected 2 years ago.

However, last year I got reconnected with my Jr high school sweatheart, my very first bf we have been together now for a year, he is wonderful and means the world to me. We talk about those things a lot, what it wouldve been like to be together since we were in Jr high ( we are 33 now) how different our lives maybe if we would have been together all those years. You never know what may happen.  

Answer 5

Yes, my husband. He's in love with someone else. Caught him pursuing her. I wonder all the time what it would be like to be in a happy - mutually loving marriage.

Answer 6

Yes... There is this guy that I knew 7 years ago when I lived in Cali and I worked for his dad. I have tried finding him on facebook and myspace but he has a  common name so it seems impossible. I so wish that I could run into him somewhere... I just feel like there was something there.

Answer 7

Ya Orlando Bloom  

Answer 8

Mine involves someone not knowing i like them a lot,which is pretty cowardly but i know they wouldnt think of me as a boyfriend...its tough

Answer 9

Yes, Yahoo loves you..but do you love Yahoo?

Answer 10

Yes.  I remember those days, of "what if the grass is greener on the other side." And the more you think about it, contemplate it, fantasize it, the bigger damage it does.  If this unrequited love is not your husband, look around you and first determine if what you have is worth losing over a "maybe."

Answer 11

Yes.  And no, we don't talk.