Does being a 22 year old female virgin put guys off?

Question

Hey, i'm 22, female and still a virgin. Do you think that would turn a guy off me? I like someone but I'm nervous about his reaction.

I'm not really all that experienced but it's just the way it turned out for me, there are no major reasons behind it, and it's nothing to do with waiting until marriage or anything like that. Just circumstances, I haven't yet met the guy i want to be intimate with.

How do you guys feel about a female being a virgin still at 22? be honest, would it turn you off?

Answer 1

Honey, if you're only 22..and he's 47...he probably just wants a ******** from you anyway! Kinda like Monica Lewinsky and Bill Clinton. So don't worry about being a virgin, okay?

Just kneel on the floor in front of him....undo your top, so as to fully expose your gorgeous 36D  b*****s....and then just take his aging member into your mouth and sloooowly suck him off. And just when you know he's about to spew his warm seed into your mouth (and try to make you swallow it) just take his gray-haired c**k out of your mouth and let him ejaculate his man gravy all over your pretty young face and all over your ample bosom, ok?

Again, that's probably all he wants from you anyway....so don't worry about being a virgin!

Now you didn't say if you were hot-bodied...or kind of on the chunky side....that's important to know because if you're kinda chunky then he definitely just wants a ******** from you....most guys only want blow jobs from fat gals......but if you're kinda hot....well then, okay, he'll probably will want to boink your sugar plumb.

Answer 2

if your a beautiful woman then thats what you are. I wouldn't be any less attracted to you if it was your first time or your 20th although if you had s*x a lot that would turn me off because then I would probably get some kind of std...

Answer 3

u like someone 47 y?...and i lost my v card at 13 . haha so maybee

Answer 4

No one who would like you would feel negatively about your experience or lack thereof. Just the contrary.

Answer 5

No and who cares what people think? I lost my virginity when I was 21.. last year, I was the last of all my friends, got teased endlessly regarding it to. To be honest I think a guy would prefer a girl who hasn't, 'been around the block a few times'. It shows your not like everyone else, and in control of your own mind in knowing what you want and have high standards.  Your partners age is irrelevant, no guy should be bothered by the fact you haven't had s*x, if anything it will be a plus point. To all those that have said he's too old, ignore them, I've always liked older guys and if you like or love someone, it doesn't matter what age they are. at 22, your old enough to make your own decisions, even if some of them are wrong, we learn by our mistakes (I'm not suggesting this is a mistake you understand).

To Yar

That's a very generalised sweeping statement! Not EVERY guy is like that, that's totally unfair. One of my best friends who is also a Nurse and my age has just got married to a guy who is 55 (he's a consultant at the hospital we work at) There were a few raised eye brows and yes he is a lot older than her, but they are in love, I know there are other things aside from love that comes into it, but quite honestly, if both partners are happy where is the issue?

Answer 6

maybe

Answer 7

It woudnt turn me off. I would probrably have more respect you.

Answer 8

It would only be a turn off if she looked down on others that are not virgins.  

Answer 9

umm. no. as long as your not too ugly and not too dumb youd be just fine. In fact most men like virgin better because theyre tighter and more naive.

Answer 10

no no no... its not a turn off at all. please dont worry about it one bit! im sure the guy you like will feel the same about it so dont worry at all. if anything he will feel relaxed as there is no pressure on him to measure up to any ex's.

Answer 11

personally, i don t mind.  

Answer 12

well their is nothing wrong with being a virgin at all be proud ,as far as you liking a 47 year old just be sure of this before you do something because it is a great difference in ages and is not the norm but good luck

Answer 13

First, if you are a virgin, it's no body's business.

Second, why do you care what he thinks?

Third, what the heck are you doing liking "someone" who is 47?

I strongly suggest you begin to associate with males closer to your age.

I also suggest your virginity that you have kept this long for a good reason stays your own little secret until you are married. That is not an unusual idea, it is a wise one for many reasons. The vast majority of males only want one thing...and then where are you?

Answer 14

Being a virgin isn't a bad thing, in fact it is better to be a virgin until you are in a steady, loving, committed relationship (my humble opinion is marriage is the best situation). There is alot of pressure today about having s*x but it isn't bad. As a 16 year old I know in my future relationships I won't hold my girlfriend being a virgin as a bad thing, but a good thing. Oh and if the guy is 47, it won't work there is too big a gap in age and maturity.

Answer 15

kinda cause we figure we probably have a snowballs chance in h**l. you don't have to just come right out and tell him you're a virgin though

Answer 16

no

Answer 17

No way, and I should know as I was 23 when I 'lost' my virginity.

He seemed to be delighted!

Answer 18

no not at all it not your fault you still a virgin many people are still a virgin at the age of 22

Most people your age are not thattexperienced anyway so they wouldn't tell and anyway you don't have to tell a b/f that you are still a virgin. btw not all people go for looks etc many go on personality as long as you got a good personality you be ok

try to find someone your own age's thats my advice

Answer 19

In general, "no", but neither would their not being a virgin bother me.

I'm assuming neither extremes in this scenario either.  (That is, the girl isn't one who sleeps around, compared to their is a fairly obvious reason why she's a virgin.)

As for him being 47 and you being 22...

You being a virgin isn't going to turn him off, but that does send off warning sirens.

It's not likely, but there is the chance he's not one you should rely on (That is, if he's 47 and still available, there's probably a reason).  

What might turn him off is your completely different life experiences.  If (for example) you want a serious partner as opposed to a friend with benefits, you have to realize he's being alive longer than you've existed.  That is, he grew up when people worried more about Vietnam than about the possibilities of the internet.

In short, I'm saying don't worry about it, and just because you're 22, don't think about throwing away your virginity just because everyone else has.  

If you truly believe you know him, and trust him, then go ahead.  Otherwise if you're worried he won't like you without sleeping with him on short notice, then you should quickly reconsider what he is to you.

Answer 20

If the guy is interested in having a sexual relationship with you, it would turn them off.  

May I ask why you're saving yourself?

Answer 21

Actually no that doesn't turn men off it actually turns them on, because they want somebody, that clean and pure, not touched, so be proud that your a virgin and don't give it up to anyone  

Answer 22

WHY WHY WHY would U mess up U're life with a man 1/2 U're age.

Just the opposite.  He's a horney toad who think he can score BIG time.

If I were U, I'd find someone my own age.

Good luck & sorry that once he gets into U're pants, he leaves U & he ads another NOTCH in his bed board.

Answer 23

no way.

Answer 24

no.. i always perfer someone who is a virgin because leftovers would be nasty =].. but yes, virgins accually turn guys on.. =]

Answer 25

im a girl, but if it put any guy off, he's just a pathetic loser who only like's cheap s**** who are loose. Im also a happy virgin, almost 19, keep up with the self-respect and high morals :)

Answer 26

I salute you!  Good for you!

If I were him and knew you were a virgin, I'd have a lot more respect for you.  You are a LADY, regardless for the reason you're a virgin.

Just my opinion.

Answer 27

You scare me!

Answer 28

Been a virgin isn't a turn off. Personally, its nice to be someone's first.

Been a virgin at 22 doesn't make any odds to most guys, can't imagine any guy been bothered by it. Just make sure he's a person you want to be intimate with, cos the older you get, the more special the situation I reckon.

Good luck (Y)  

Answer 29

Nothing wrong with that.  There are alot more 22 year old virgins than you might think.

Answer 30

i hope not