Does daily masturbation help with stress?

Question

Hi, I am married for 3 years with a baby. I have a very unfulfilled sexual relationship with my husband. He has a very low s*x drive and he used to reject me all the time during the first year of marriage to the point that I became totally off s*x with him. When I was shaking in bed out of sexual frustration because of his constant rejection, I struggled to fight with my libido and tried to be immune of wanting him. Now he is interested because he sees that I am not interested in him anymore, but I am not attracted to him at all. From day one of our marriage, I was masturbating as a way to manage the stress. Now I just prefer masturbation than being with him, because I don't love him anymore. I am planning my escape and I think I will free myself from this S****y marriage in a couple of months. I think masturbation helps me with stress and depression. I am hoping for the day that I find a more compatible person. He is very moody and abusive. Does masturbation help with stress or am I just imagining that it helps?

Answer 1

  well... if it makes you feel good..that is your answer. also hit me up weyco373@yahoo

Answer 2

well that sounds very bad! But yeah it really can help with stress!

Answer 3

Hey dear, how long can your masterbation help you. you'll be more frustated once you break your marriage. you better try to have s*x wih the feelings with your hubby, iam sure you'll start loving each other and waite for s*x. only this will help you to come out of your stress and frustration, good luck, bye

Answer 4

  You deserve a relationship w lots of hot s*x . Until you can arrainge that  set your own schedule  for getting off . This hobby will not relieve depression tho .  

Answer 5

Sure I m********e from 1 to 3 times a day normally, If I'm not hooked up with any one. You have to, or go crazy.

Answer 6

yes.

Answer 7

u sud leave him since hes abusive nd get him 4 child support if u want 2 nd masturbation relives sum sexual stress

Answer 8

It helps, masturbation relieves your sexual stress.

Answer 9

if it makes you feel good  why not  just keep on doing it, till you can dump the chump, and get a man that can hump.

Answer 10

Yes it helps with stress but there are other things you can do to take the focus off of s*x.  

Answer 11

Although it makes you feel good you should save that for your husband.  Try exercizing.  It releases positive endorphins in your brain.  It will help with your stress and depression.

Answer 12

Yes it does helps u .....

By the way i can help u in fulfilling ur desire and satsfy u..

Answer 13

Yes it helps. Do it coz once u feel Rejected by yourself too. U may lose your interest in s*x totaly. Do it and it cost u nothing. Let it go loose. :)

Answer 14

What really matters is whether it destresses you.If it does,good for you.Why do you have to bother if it helps others or not?

If it helps you,then it means that the therapy works for

you.And you certainly are not imagining it helps.

Answer 15

Good for you....and keep up the masturbation until you find a man you love and who will satisfy you...It sure does ease the stress as your mind can wander off into a world of fantasy...

Answer 16

Tell him how to please you and you will not have that problem.

Case closed

Answer 17

If your not getting it from your husband, yes masteurbation will help with stress.

s*x helps. Before I got married: masturbation did help with less stress.

my husband agrees.

Answer 18

Yes, maturbation definetly helps with stress ~ Sometimes my wife and I do it while lying next to each other, just to do something different...My wife says we have a wonderful s*x life, and I agree. When we make love and we both always climax, she said she feels so much better the next day. Well you climax when you m********e, so it has the same effect! You go girl!!!

Answer 19

Yes masturbating in sexually failed marriage is better then indulging in extra-marital sexual relationship. If your husband is not able to sexually satisfy you it is best for you to m********e & remain stressfree.Most people do that even if they are sexually getting enough as this help them to get free of stress anytime they want without the help of any sexual partner.  

Answer 20

Well if masturbation has helped you with stress remember actual s*x is a better stress deterant.

Yes if he is moody and abusive then retaliate with not having s*x with him - but then you need ot enjoy s*x for that look for s*x outside you cannot keep sacrificing for ever.

Answer 21

You know it does that why your have fun doing it> Fantasy helps and the stress> Hope you have the drama in your life over soon as them you can have the mind rest you need> Enjoy the release as it safe and all yours to enjoy >Some day you can enjoy this with some 1 that cares and increase the pleasure>