Does every woman need a man to live with?

Question

i yearn so much for love. im married and have kids. My husband has cheated me like 5 to 6 times. We have been to counselling and though now he is all good, i dont have any feelings for him. yet i yearn for love all the time. is it bad?

Answer 1

Hi it is your call . there are many things i do not know . Age of your children ... yes you as an individual have a right to yearn for love and think seriously before securing a divorce. Are you self dependent. ther will be many legal aspects . Custody of children.... many other things

Wish you luck but sorry if i Scared you ..........

much love

Answer 2

No, completely normal. It's sad that you have been put through so much. Some day you will be rewarded for sticking in there for your kids.

Answer 3

Yes it is bad cos we have to accept life at the face of it. But to tell you these things are not uncommon. My parents have also gone thru a lot of turbulence in their life, It is why we are here to face turbulence and the great great Lord has thought of a very very wonderful way to punish us. Please take care of urself and take good care of urself and ur kids, who need ur attention the most and right now if u r financially dependent on your husband please continue staying with him or please try to make yourself financially independent. Remember never lose hope cos as problems have come they will also definitely go cos everything is temporary here.

Answer 4

i dunno what to tell u....im going through a similar situation...going back to my husband who cheated on me..i no things can never be the same again b/w us n yes i too crave for someone who wud just luv me for who i am..im hoping things wud change n wud wish the same 4 u...hang in there..these bad n shaddy days wud also pass...

Answer 5

No it is not bad. You deserve love and you have not received any from your husband. I don't blame you at all. I don't where you live and what the culture situation is...I say this because if you live in the US and are indian I suppose it might not be so taboo to leave him however, if you live in india it might...I don't know...things are changing there all the time.  Anyways, back to the situation at hand. This may sound harsh. Just leave the loser and take the kids. Kids watch and that is how they learn. I wouldn't want my kids watching my husband and I fighting all the time because he keeps sleeping around. Don't raise your children with this kind of dysfunction.  Leave the b*****d. Once a cheater always a cheater.  

Answer 6

To answer ur first q. No. Every woman doesn't NEED a man to be with. Nuns are single, and there are other women in india who choose this lifestyle too. It's not bad to yearn, it just proves ur human. Ur hurt too, so that's part of it, u want to counteract the feeling. U have kids with this guy, u had a bond with this guy, so ur still stuck with him...and u just want him to love u...until ur ready to return his love. U probably figure that's the least he can do after cheating on u so many times. Just my own thoughts.

Answer 7

needing a man or a woman is just a basic requirement in the life given to mankind by god. some go without it. even this is gods doing.but what you are under going is a karmatic factor, which is connected to your past doings, which you have to pay for it now , in this life. i have lived my wife for the last 30 over years even after knowing that she has cheated on me as early as two years of marriage. i am together because of the children. their life and future is important to me. i take it as a karmatic factor and my sacrifice towards my children. so please forcus on your children and live happy.

Answer 8

You should get rid of him and find someone who truly loves you. To answer your question "Does every women need a man to live with?" The answer is a definite NO.

Answer 9

no.b happy with ur choice.cheerssssssssssssss.

Answer 10

WHO SAID THAT A WOMAN NEEDS A MAN TO LIVE WITH. i DONT THINK SO AND M NOT GOING TO STAY WITH A BUGGER.  U, U DONT FEEL ANYTHNG BOT HIM STILL U R WITH HIM.  WOMAN THINK,  COS OF U WOMEN WE ARE NOT FREE YET.  TRY TO STAND FOR URSELF.  LOVE IS NOT EVERYTHNG.  LOVE URSELF, LOVE UR LIFE FIRST. I DONNO WHAT U THINK BUT U SHUD RATHER MOVE ON DUMPNIG THIS BUGGER WHO HAS CHEATED YOU 5-6 TIMES OMG.

Answer 11

No, it is not. But if you do not have feelings for him, why are you with him? Get a divorce.

Answer 12

No it is not so that woman need man but both are equally needed each other. If your husband is cheating you than it is better to get rid of him. Though it is difficult decision but to get depressed and stressful is more worst. So talk to him clearly either he should be only yours or at least not yours.

Answer 13

Do you love yourself?  Do you  know who you are?  Who are you without your husband and children?

You shouldn't be with your husband if you don't love him.  Life is hard enough to deal with than to be with someone you don't love.

I am 40 and don't know what love is or ever felt I had love in my life.

Don't stay with him.  He may be in counselling,but he just may do it again.

Answer 14

s ofcourse they want man's help for living

Answer 15

Dump him find someone else. There are many who would even own up the kids.

Answer 16

OH h**l NO, my wife does not need me. My wife wants me!

I wish that people would be required to live on their own for 2 years before they could get a marriage license that way people would know they are not stuck in the marriage.

You say your husband has cheated on you 5 or 6 times you should probably find out what your next husband wants so he won't cheat on you also.  

Answer 17

u need to trust him. because u told he is good now.

but if he will not change than u can take further step.

if u working than u dont have to worry.

think for ur children first . he will also agree with u definately.

Answer 18

You have a strong feeling for true love, you desperatly need a man who understand your feelings and emotions but sadly no solution for you becuase your husband is walking on the wrong track and he is not interested in you that's why he cheat you and make relation outside.