Does he like me, don´t know what to do!!!! Help me please <span title="!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?">!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...</span>

Question

Well I´ve liked a guy (sebastian) for more than a year and he found out one day through "friends". After that he got really shy around me but that if he was by himself if he was with friends he would act "cool". I invited him as FRIENDS to the movies, (not just him it was him and so other friends) he said yes and never showed. Well after that I just ignored him but then I catched him looking at me all the time (his father too), he even asked me to dance with him at our prom through one of my friends but I said no (too shy), I thought he liked me since we had chatted on msn tons of times and at school once or twice but... then I found out he got a girlfriend (like 2 months ago) and they always make sure I see them togetherr". She and his friends always ask if I still like him but I don´t answer. The other day a saw him at blockbuster well... I saw his friends. They ran over to him and told him I was there. 2 seconds later he was standing behind me "pretending to look at movies" so I grabed some random movie and got out.

I know he has a girlfriend but I´ve seen him looking at me, we´ve chatted, etc... and I don´t know if he´s just using her to make mejealouss because he likes me or not. Please help me

(I´m 13 (almost 14), he´s 14.)

I live in mexico but I lived in the US 4 10 years so my English is well like an americans and that make skids at school hate me and make fun of me (I´m not stuck up i swear in fact I´m shy) but when they make me feel bad he defends me even against his own girlfriend and friends.

So today at school I saw him (It´s a private school) and i wasn´t in my uniform cause i didn´t have all of it. I saw him staring at me when we were u know outside having the welcome back thing and his girlfriend was looking at me soooooo bad that i thought she was going to punch me. i ignored him but then later on he went into my homeroom looked for me saw me and left. And at recess he was wih a friend hugging him by the neck (but his friendit like way shorter than him so he was practicly neeling) so they went over and his friend asked why I haden´t worn the uniform but I didn´t say i just said i didn´t feel like it cause Sebastian was there staring (i mean I he wanted to know why didn´t he just ask) and they started to leave and he (the friend) said you rebel lol. and left and sebastian was RED. after that 4 of his friends came over to me and wanted to talk but they´re older that me and his friends so i just wanted to leave but then they started to say they wanted to HUG me and i said NO finally one of them said no come let´s not be too hard on her and I ran.

why is he doing this. Does he like me?? He lookes at me and his girlfriend lookes at me like she wants to hit me so what does that mean? If he does want to know things about me like my uniform and stuff why doesnt he just ask me directly. He lookes at me and when I see him lookes away, why? is his girlfriend just there to make me jelous (even if she thinks it´s not like that)? And whenever they see me they don´t even talk or they go the whole why around the school so they won´t have to see me and I try to just ignor him but it´s hard when i see him staring at me from across the school or where ever (and his friends always tell him if i´m close or behind him and he´ll GET OUT fast) I feel like she doesn´t want me to take him from her lol. Just please HELP.

I would really like...LOVE long answers ok thanks.

(mens health for guys opinions ok thanks)

Answer 1

Boys are really flakey at that age, its really difficult to tell how he feels, I would say that he likes you, but the fact that he has a girlfriend just complicates things.

Forgive me for saying this but his actions are really childish, which I guess makes since since hes so young, but I really would think about finding a guy who really likes you, and doesnt play games.

If you really want to know the only way you will, is confront him, and call him on his behavior. Why do you act like this? why do you keep staring at me? That type of thing.

Answer 2

You&#039;re question is so long that I can&#039;t check but have you spoken to him about this?  You don&#039;t have to tell him everything that you&#039;ve told us but as you say you speak to him a lot on MSN have you tried finding out if he&#039;s okay/ his relationship with his girlfriend is okay?  Try not to be nosey or anything but I think if you talk to him and are willing to listen things might get better.  You could also try talking to a parent about this problem and see if they can help.