Does he like me?? (Guys I need your help)?

Question

Alright..i like this one guy...lets call him "Fred". Ive liked "fred" for about a year now..and he's known it..now im not sure but everytime he sees me or my family he will look at me and even sometimes stares at me. i know he has a gf..ut latley ive been thinkng he might like me and not want to say anything..could this be?

Answer 1

Truthfully, I'd be straight up and ask him. One main reason, ( I just had this done to me personally), you may be mislead. Finding out after all this time will hurt you a lot, that is to say he doesn't like you. If he does like you, then he'll tell you he does and life will be good. One problem, his girlfriend. Right now, I think you guys should stay friends. Having a friendship is way more satisfying in the end. I've learned this summer that having friends that will always be side is going to be the best in the long run. I hope this helps!!

Answer 2

well if u want him try it go for it if not mayb he wants both of u (lucky B)

Answer 3

if he has a gf then no

Answer 4

ask him do you like me

Answer 5

he likes you

Answer 6

Me as a guy you might turn him on. The girl friend probably does not. She will eventually gives up. So keep yourself around. Let him know where you at. So talk to him. you don't what's going to happen.

Answer 7

I don't know if he likes you, but do not flirt or go for a guy with a girlfriend. You can try to become closer friends with him, but while he's going out with another girl, don't make a move. That would be mean to his girlfriend, and you don't want to be with a guy who would cheat on his significant other anyway. Good luck!

Answer 8

well it depends... i mean how old are you guys?

and i mean it's been a whole year. don't you think he would have done something by now?

also sometime people are just made to be friends and nothing more...

Answer 9

He's thinking he wants to boink you on the side.  

Answer 10

I have to say he is thinking of going out with you but if he isn't flirting with you then he doesn't plan to fully go ahead and truly ask you out.

Answer 11

Sounds like he's playing out a fantasizing in his mind while looking at you.  A dream like "what if I was with her, what would we be doing right about now" dream.  Or he might be trying to think of a way to let you know his feelings.  Either way can be hazardous for him if he has a girlfriend of any commitment.  You could clue him in, in a subtle way that you have feelings that extend past friendship.

Answer 12

Possibly. If he is staring at you and stuff like that then maybe.

But let him first deal with it, mdont meddle with his relationship with the girlfriend because that seriously is not good at all.

Just talk to him as friends. Start a light conversation with him and see how it goes. Maybe he does have feelings for you, maybe not. Ask around (from people you trsut the most) if they know anything. Only time will tell. Dont jump into conclusions just yet until you have more clues about it, because in the end you might embarrass yourself if you do.

Goood luck.

Answer 13

well, there's no way for us to know because

unfortunately we can't read ppls minds :/

Answer 14

he may like you but as long as he has a gf keep your distance.  

Answer 15

probably. if he breaks up with his girlfriend any time soon, then he defenitly does

Answer 16

if someone is taken they usually dont want to show affection to other people. he might like you but dont be the one to mess up the relationship

Answer 17

ummm i usually stare to the girls, but doesnt mean i like em, actually i stare because i kno them, and wanted to say hi o something 'mannerism', i also stare at the girl i like so this can be confusing...

Answer 18

Oh Ya he likes you. It's just bad timing for him.

Answer 19

sounds like he's conflicted

Answer 20

If he has a girlfriend, why are you trying to be with him?

Don't be a Sally Homewrecker!

Answer 21

I honestly don't know. Not enough details. I think that you should make a move if you have nothing to lose.

Answer 22

.....talk 2 him......

Answer 23

us guys are idiots... since he knows u like him.. he is gonna keep u liking him because he sees u as either as a potential mess around or as a rebound girl for .. if or when he breaks up with his girlfriend.. if he trully liked u he would of done something a year ago... thats the truth us guys think that we can get a girl that liked us 10 years ago cause we are idiots we have many flaws and thats one of them.. i just lost my girlfriend a couple of days ago and i cant stop but wonder if it was my fault maybe im making a big deal out of something small... but yeah just move on girl dont wait for someone if he isnt showing interest or espicially if he doesnt even want to talk or make some kind of effort to show u he likes u back. plus if he has a girlfriend and leaves her for u... dont forget he did it once and can do it again... its called karma baby.... good luck with everything my advice... MOVE ON!!! lata

Answer 24

You want a guy that stares at you?... Aaand he has a girlfriend?....