Does he like me and a couple of other things...?

Question

Okay, I really (really) like this guy and want to know if he likes me.

I work with him in a casual environment every once in a while (that's how I met him).

And we really hit it off.

We joke around together and talk about different things.

When I looked in his eyes and he noticed me looking he looked at me and we kept contact for a little bit. (that's happened twice)

I own a ripstik and him and I would go out almost every night after work and take turns riding it while the other person sat and watched. We would talk and joke around and stuff. If I said I couldn't do a trick or something he'd be like "yes you can, you've almost got it, keep trying" and stuff like that to encourage me.

We hung out a lot during breaks and stuff at work.

And he was just really nice to me in general.

So does he like me or does she just want to be friends?

Or can you even tell with what I told you?

Another thing I was wondering about was; we were joking around one day and I said "Do you hate me?" (jokingly) and he said "No I don't hate you, you're a very nice person to work with"

So...does that mean anything?

Last thing I was wondering about is;

He lives about 2 hours away from me. And with the job we would only see each other about 1 maybe 2 weeks a year. We didn't exchange e-mails or phone numbers or anything before that week ended so we have no way of contacting each other. But I really like him and I think he might be "the one" but since we only see each other like once a year, we have no way of contacting each other and he didn't tell me that he liked me should I just kind of give up?

There is another guy I kind of (sort of) like and he lives near me and we see each other fairly often, and I think he kind of likes me.

So should I get to know the guy that lives near me more or wait for the guy that lives 2 hours away from me.

I know anything can happen (like the guy that lives far away from me moving) but I'm really confused right now.

Sorry if this was really confusing. You don't need to answer all of the questions. And sorry this was a really long question. Please don't be mean and thanks for answering.

Answer 1

I made a new account.. so i reposted my answer.. it should be the next one down

Answer 2

Alright,

Well if you want my honest opinion i would think, from what you've given me, is that the boy you were talking about did have a crush on you. I don't know how serious of one because you didn't really give a whole lot of info.. but yes, i did think that he had a crush on you. But, you have to know, most crushes come and go like the seasons.

If you want to try to come in contact with him then i would suggest one of the following:

1.Check Myspace, Facebook, etc.  alot of people have them and you might get lucky with finding him.. then you can begin to talk to him through email, Im'ing, myspace, facebook, etc.

2. You said you worked with him. maybe you could go to a website of the job and find him there. (just a suggestion, i have no idea if it would work)

But if you cant find him then i would get your hopes down.. like i said most crushes come and go like the seasons. You most likely will start liking some other guy in a couple weeks-months.

About the "do you hate me question" I would say that he seems like a shy person when it comes to the people in relationships so I would think of it as a a way of saying that he likes you.. without actually saying it.

If you think you DO actually really like him.. then i say you definitely shouldn't give up. And with the whole 2 hour deal.. thats not to bad if you both can drive.. you could meet up a few times a week and hang out half way.  But then again, gas money is getting really expensive.. =\

But with the other guy, i would say that you should definitely keep your options open.. get to know the other guy and see how it works out... as you said, you do like him and you would get to see him alot more often.

Well i think i answered most of the questions.. good luck w/ it all. =]