Does he like me? guys please!!! or experienced girls that KNOW when guys like her?

Question

ok i'm kinda confused whether he likes me or not.

first of all we're like best friends

he tells me he loves me sometimes but it seems like in a playful way

and he calls me s**y lol....

when there's something wrong with me he always touches my arm.

he compliments me a lot

when i told him this boy grabbed my *** he seemed a little upset.....

when i walked into a room i caught him staring at me one time but then he just smiled.

he likes to hug me.

but it seems like he likes someone else cuz he tells me how he didnt have time to talk to her and he grabbed her really close one time before a meeting. oh && he told me he was trying to make out with this other girl.

oh && he calls me his baby. does he like me? please don't leave rude comments! i know it may seem obvious to some people, but i'm just not sure

Answer 1

he likes you.

Answer 2

He likes you but he is testing you, the reason he is doing this with the other girls is because he is testing you to see if you get jeleous, ergo, he likes you

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Go for it girlfriend!!!!

Answer 3

wow someone wrote and novel and answered their own question!!  no c**p he likes you and by the sound of things he sounds older than you to... can we say predator??

- Man'Swers ( A Man Answer! )

Answer 4

sorry..i dont think he likes u... sure he says he loves u..but i'm thinking he loves u like a brother loves his sister..thats probally why her didn't like it when the other guy touched u there....but if u like him why dont talk to him about, u 2 seem close so the convo. wouldn't be sooo akward!

Answer 5

no i think you two are just really close friends

Answer 6

he likes u alot jus trust me in this 1 .try kissin him when the moments right.he said he tried 2 kiss other girls 2 see how ur gonna react. and insted of readin dis WHAT THE h**l ARE YOU WAITING 4?!?!?!?!?!

Answer 7

OH YA HE LOVES U!!! alot thats hottt!

Answer 8

One thing is for SURE here:  He is COMFORTABLE with you.  IS that good, bad, or indifferent?  Well, it could be good and it could be bad!  Let's yake a little look at this froma GUY'S point of view. (Yes, I AM a guy!)  

You didn't state your age or his age.  That matters in my opinion.

Guys are VISUAL creatures!  I'll be flat honest with you in that I feel there must be some physical attraction from BOTH parties.  Are you physically attracted to him?  Do you believe he is physically attracted to you??  Lok, I'm trying to be real here.  So I apologize if this hurts anyones' feelings.  But if a girl is not attractive to me...for instance, she is way, way out of shape (example: 5 feet, two inches tall and 250 pounds, despite how nice she is, I don't want a "romantic relationship."  Yes, that is immature and shallow.  But it's the way I'm wired.

How long have you known this guy?  If it's for more than a year (any length of time) and there's been NO "chemistry" (I mean kissing, etc., my opinion is that you're in his comfort zone...more of a buddy than a g/f).  If there has been physical intimacy between you but it's not consistant, chances are he's taking advantage of you being there.  If that's the case, YOU MUST SET THE BOUNDARIES BEFORE YOU ARE WALKED ALL OVER EVEN MORE.

While you may not want to come across too agressively,  you could out and out ask him.  But that may put him on the spot.  

Deep inside you MUST have a hunch as to his true feelings.  Go with your hunch.  You can analyze this until you are crazy.

You can either keep his friendship and MAYBE something will develop or let him know you are getting mixed messages and want to get on with your life.

I may bet some flack for this, but buy a couple of new pieces of clothing.  Do something different with your hair.  Dress a BIT more s**y.  Feel CONFIFENT in yourself.  Confidence is s**y.

I wish I knew your age to better fine tune this for you.  Feel free to email me.  My a-o-l- address is D-P-T----ph--arm--acy (all one word without the ---- in them)...I posted it that way here so it doesn't pop up on a Google search!

I'd be happy to help you more.