Does he like me or does he see me as a friend? ?

Question

i work with this guy matt and we flirt alot and . we are life guards so we have a lot of down and he really opens up to me and tells me things he would never tell to anyone but me and he is very sweet and comes to me to talk about his problems and is very protective of me and is just over all really caring. i really like him do yu think he likes me as much as i like him or r we just friends.

Answer 1

It sounds like you two really hit it off.  This relationship could lead to more than just friends.  Enjoy your friendship with him, and if it leads to more than "just friends", have fun and always remember that your friendship and special bond is most important no matter what.

Answer 2

you can't tell     ask him for a date, that will do it.

Answer 3

1. He flirts with you.

2. He's protective of you

3. He opens up to you.

What more can I say? When I open up to someone I have genuine feelings for it tells me that I'm really falling for them.

If he's single, I'm taking it that he is, why don't you ask him what he thinks of you and about dating?

Answer 4

Well, you could be two things. Either the two of you are best friends with more than a fifty% chance of going out or you two can start being an item any time. Either way, I think both is good

Answer 5

Okay, this is so tough. I know. You have to decide if you want to risk making things awkward between the two of you if he doesn't like you or things don't work out. Here is the thing: Guys can be just as shy and confused about this as girls. He could be feeling just like you do and is contemplating how to ask you out or talk to you about it. Do you ever hang out with him outside of the life guarding job? If not, then you may try asking him to hang out. You would not have to say it was a date or anything, but just tell him you think it would be fun to hang out. If you are already doing this, then you may want to give it some time and see what develops or if you are brave, when there is a time, be direct and tell him that you like him as more than a friend. The worst thing that will happen is he will say he just wants to be friends and he will be flattered that you feel that way. The best thing that could happen......you probably already know that! Dating, kissing, more butterflies.:)