Does he like me or is he using me?

Question

ok theres this guy that i like and he knows that i like him but he has never asked me out or admitted that he liked me back...he says were friends and he doesnt and cant have a gf right now but he wanted me to have s*x with him and i declined the offer one night and now he isnt really talking to me...is he using me?

Answer 1

Yes, he is.

Answer 2

Yes he is using you. I mean hes mad because you didn't have s*x with him. That's an example of a b*****d.

Answer 3

He probably is.

Answer 4

no but he tried 2

Answer 5

Not anymore.  

Answer 6

You like him but you didn't want to have s*x with him?

Answer 7

Yes.  He would like that very much.

Answer 8

Sounds like he might be, if he doesn't want a relationship but would "go to bed" with you.

I think if he really liked you, he'd want to talk more or spend time with you. Sometimes guys will act interested as long as they think they might have a chance to get some, and since you've shot him down for that he isn't as interested anymore.  

Answer 9

Well he didn`t use you considering he didn`t get s*x. Although he was just being nice to get s*x. You didn`t give him what he wanted so now he dosen`t have any time for you. He just wanted s*x, so it`s better now that he dosen`t talk to you. Get a good guy =).

Answer 10

LOL, that a CLASSIC player technique. Theres a lot of woman out there that take that as a challange and take it hook line and sinker. He's style needs serious work though, you don't ask!!!!...you just have fun together normal date stuff with a lite playful vibe... but keep the a subtle s*x talk/ playful inuendo going (not crass stuff either) and presto bammo you are having s*x, with the stated intention of NO strings, and if they fall for you...well you told them!!

Point is he tried to Player you...and the good news he wasnt  good at it. If you don't already know he was trying to use you, what do they think the chances are you would have slept with him if he had know what he was actually doing and done something like the above???

Yes I was man scum...I'm reformed :)

Answer 11

He was using you. You need to find someone better than him.

Answer 12

to me it sounds like hes using you! It happened to me during the summer! I am so sorry, I know hoe it feels to like some one but them not like you back! I hope that oyu eventually find someone that will treat you right and not use you!

Answer 13

well hunny im sorry to say that he is a low down dirtbag.   he just wants one thing and that is S****y.  i know its harsh but he wasnt that into you and you are probably very beautiful and smart and can do so much better.  go find somebody that isnt trying to add more to his count.

Answer 14

Well he's TRYING to use you, and thank the good lord you haven't let him. Please keep up the good work. It's extremely, blindingly obvious when a guy asks you for s*x but can't give you a commitment that he's just looking for a fling. He might be doing that with 10 other girls, and you can bet once he's bored with you (which could be after one time) he'll drop you like a bad habit. Be smart and find a guy who's not such a JERK!

Answer 15

He tried.

Answer 16

Sounds like he's using you to me.....or he's just a dog.  Move on, there's better out there!

Answer 17

h**l yeah he us using you.....can't you see he only want you for one thing. girl he aint worth it.

Answer 18

lol sounds like some1 wants to be ur s*x buddy. no he dosnt wanna be ur boyfriend he just wants to experiment with u and see wat girls like.