Does he likes what I'm doing?

Question

man

sun moon mercury: cappy

venus mars: scorp

female

sun mercury: scorp

moon: aries

venus: cappy

mars: virgo

I always like to do sweet things to my man... a lot often I send him love e-mails cards, and make sweet notes... He doesn't make comments except for an occational thanks... i feel rejected and unappreciated sometimes... i just bear it inside. does he likes what i am doing?

Answer 1

probably not guys aren't really into that stuff, especially if you guys are like young teens. He probably See's it as a little needy, and desperate. It is nice of you to do that, but maybe don't do it so often.

Answer 2

he likes what you are doing and sees it as you reaching out to show him you care. BUT, capricorns, like myself, are 'cold hearted' we are not going to be emotional and admit our love to you and gush over the little things you do for us. we will appreciate them and enjoy them, but may not come right out and tell you. we are not rejecting, but rather locked inside ourselves. we find it hard to relay our emotions to others in words. we use body language and actions to show we care.

he has a lot of cold hearted saturn in his chart so just be patient with him as he will be overly patient with you! cappi is usually so slow to react and warm up, but once they break out they will show you mounds of love and genuine affections, but you would just need to know what to look for as signs of affection.

In fact, I just answered an email for a pisces who felt rejected by her cappi man! she said she felt like maybe she should stop with the little things she does because she felt maybe she was annoying him or he was ignoring her to let her know that she wasn't cared for.

it is simply that he is earth and you are water. water and earth are opposites, but they can link into place as perfect harmony. you just need to work through cappis outer layer of ice in time you will, and then he will pour out his heart to you. usually until you get married or move in together, he wont' open up fully. he needs 100% commitment and loyalty from someone before he can do so.

in the meantime here are some ways cappi show they do care with body, possessions, and actions:

they share their precious time by spending it with you, they take you out and spend their well budgetted money on you, they let you into their home (even if just a visit), they let you sleep in their bed, they let you drive their car if need be( this is a big one believe it or not!), if they tell you any kind of emotions verbally at all, if they cuddle or hug you, if they stroke your hair etc. usually they are quite reserved and only reach out to those they care for.

MOST IMPORTANT: dont' be afraid to make demands. this is something I told the pisces woman. he cares for you, and there is nothing you could ask him for that he wouldn't want to give you! when a cappi is in love they would give the world if they had it to give. don't be afraid to bring it up.

cappi is up front and blunt, you can be that way with him too. say "hey, does it ever bother you sometimes how I express my love for you", pouting works great on cappis by the way! we melt for it. he will always reply with your heart in mind and will be respectful and kind, so don't be afraid to open up to him, and don't be afraid to pry him open either. what you will find under the cold exterior is hot passion and a need to love and be loved. cappi is like safe oven. cold to the touch but open it up and it will fill your home with heat (love) and light(clarity).  you can tell him anything, so long as you watch how you do it. don't be demanding in tone and dont be rude or emotionally out of control. subtlety is key here. tell him " you know, sometimes when you don't respond to my texts it makes me wonder... and sometimes it really makes me feel like you don't care about me as much as i care about you" go ahead and tell him FACE TO FACE, we see texting as so impersonal. there should be nothing you cant say in person face to face that you could say in a text. tell him to his face and watch him melt all over you with affection.

Answer 3

I would.

Answer 4

Most likely not.

Both scorpios and capricorns a wee bit difficult.

Guys normally aren't into that unless they're unusually emotional. Stop, and see if he says anything. Then I guess you'll know.

:)

Answer 5

He does, he's just hiding his "oh my God, that's so sweet" sentiment inside.  He's supposed to be a man, but he'll turn around and start doing sweet things for you too.  They get embarrassed when it comes to things like that... so when he gets you a teddy bear, he'll probably throw it at you instead of just handing it to you.  :)

Answer 6

From others' and my own experiences, it takes something to make a capricorn say "thanks."

Capricorns are my polar opposite. While Cancers may care about being good people, a capricorn could not give a d**n as long as their work is done correctly.

He could easily be an a**hole if he wanted.

I believe he likes what you are doing. However, depending on his age, he may not be sure what he wants personally. Capricorns are great workers way before catering to their souls needs.

So, he may like it but still not appreciate it. If it's not what he's looking for right now then there's nothing you can do about that. If he's focusing on career, material desires, or other goals at the moment, the best thing to do is help him achieve these to stay in the picture.

Capricorns are focused-wise goats, whatever will support or gravitate them towards their long-term focus is what attracts them.