Does he love me or is he just content with his life with me?

Question

We never talk, go out, spend time together and only intamate maybe once a month and i have to be the one to come on to him. He doesn't give me any reason to think he is seeing anyone else nor does he have the time. The man i was with before him took me out to dinner and a movie atleast 3x's a month. He did every thing he could to please me, but when we seperated i found out he messed around with other women. I miss the things we done. And i find myself very lonely right now, but my husband don't seem to care. But he is very jealous. Do you think he could possibly love me or just hates a change so much that he doesn't want to leave?

Answer 1

I'm in the same situation...I often fantasize about my old boyfriends who were loving and I felt like they really wanted to be with me.  I am starved for attention right now, but I am not the cheating type..I don't want that complication in my life.. I don't know what to do either.  He says he loves me, but I have told him over and over that actions speak louder than words.  He is also not cheating on me, but I sit here wondering too, is he just too lazy to find someone else.  I think he just likes someone to be around when it's convenient for him.  I look at other couples and I think I can't live like this anymore, but then I feel sorry for him and think, maybe he does really love me, but doesn't know how to show it...(I know his childhood really sucked, so I think that may have molded him somewhat).  I really need to to talk to my guy too and say that maybe we should take some time apart.  I've even gone so far as to think about hiring an escort to seduce him, and get him to cheat on me, so that I'll have a good reason to kick him out...lol... Good luck with your situation.  Makes me feel better that I know someone else is in a similar relationship

Answer 2

move on.......................

Answer 3

dump him...I would!

Answer 4

Life Has Value! Each second of your life should be worthed. If he does not respect you; if he does not buy at least every two to three weeks flowers for you; then he does not love you! Presenting flowers to women is the best sign of LOVE. Taking you out to restaurant is not really very important. HE MUST spend TIME TO LOOK DIRECTLY into your EYES with love and respect. Even s*x is not sign of love at all; or whatever he says during s*x it totally worthless. All men do that; after s*x the true nature of all men could be cross-examined. Does he care after s*x and say thanks and stay with you for your work hard  to make him happy, or he thinks it was your duty, leave you  alone soon after!          

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Answer 5

well confront him if you love Him this won't be that thing that breaks you up