Does he still love me or not?

Question

We have been together for over 2 years and have a kid. We have been taking a break and we agreed that we both could date. He got really jealous and know i am a w***e. I don't understand what his problem is why would he start doing this does he care or does he not care also he told me that our little girl does not need a w***e for a mother what do i do I love him to death

Answer 1

How can u love some1 to death who calls u a w***e?  Leave him alone.

Answer 2

he's just jealous, and obviously an a$s.  you should rethink "loving him to death".  

daughters can live with whores for mothers, but they don't need someone who disrespects their mom right in front of them.

Answer 3

simple. he wants to be able to be w/ other ppl but he cant bare to see u do it. so yea, he still loves u, but u guys obviously have relationship problems that u guys havent sat down and talked about. until that happens imagine ur relationship on pause at this same spot u guys are at right now.

some spelling errors on ur part, im unsure if u said he CALLED u a w***e or if u really are one. if u are one..disregard my answer

Answer 4

You need to stop doing what you are doing and act like his lover. First of all you both messed up when yall said that each other can date other people. That's a big no no because someone can get killed over jealousy. But talk to him as your baby father a let him no how you feel about the situation you are in. Then you get straight then get in in line, and yall will be a happy family again. Trust me when I say this, he loves you more than you love him so he WILL come back. I seen it happen too many times with my cousin and her baby father.

Answer 5

There's a fine line between jealousy and caring...

Sounds to me that what you are doing, break wise - isn't something you plan on doing long term, thus maybe discussing with him how happy you are simply knowing him, complement him - most men want affirmation. You give him that, and he SHOULD give you respect. You have to return back to being together (realtionship state wise) I'm assuming if this going to work, and that is a way getting back there, if he's truly grown up. Last thing you want is raise a girl who has her father calling her a wh--- IMO.

I'm sure it's more complicated though, since I don't know if you've been seeing more people (in certain ways) than him or vise versa, not that it should matter, it just plays a role in determining the legitimacy.

Personally, here's the harsh but bright truth-IMO again. You've seen him for 2 years, that's not long, trust me- and if you can create stability, respectful, and loving partnership than you need to strongly move one, and fast. You love him, but believe me, you can love someone much more who loves you, if he is truly a immature jealous prick, and you Feel you can deserve better, you should do that - I had similar and longer situations with that, and a kid can't stop you wrecking your life, and coincidently hers. If that's the case then make a plan and be firm with it. Otherwise try what I said earlier and make him prove he can grow up by treating him as a grown up-but in a compassionate way for testing purposes, maybe you just need a wake up call from the truth train which isn't a bad thing neccessarily. I use technique all the time, it's a quick and easy way to learn something you never knew about another person. My explanation is truly much more complicated, but I hope that helps? Live goes on, just remember that in worst case. Live does always go ON.

Answer 6

Honestly, he probably doesn't care about you the way he used to. Boils down to he doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. Don't get caught up in that, move on.

Answer 7

You pick yourself up and move on. You do not deserve this kind of treatment, no one does. He can't love you if he is treating you this way. Think about it, would you treat someone you love this way? No, you wouldn't. So you should not be treated like this either. I would move on, fix yourself up, go out and have a good time.