Does he think I'm a stalker???? Long..but please help.?

Question

im 16. there is a guy in one of my classes who sits in my view of the teacher. so when i look at the teacher i think he thinks i am looking at him. hes really popular and stuff...attractive, yes. but not my type. everyday when i am randomly walking around school i see him like 5-6 times a day. there is noone else i see this much.here's an example of yesterday-saw him in class, we went to the same place for lunch. there is like 25 different places to choose from but we pick the same one? he was with his new girlfriend there, i saw him at an afterschool thing.

today-saw him while walking to his car saw him walking around and saw him after school.

whenever i see him he gives me a super blank stare. i can't tell if it's an "i hate you" or "i like you" stare. during class he glances at me when pretending to look at someone near me who is answering a question. it seems whenever im walking he is in my plain view i see him hes giving me that blank stare. also, we dont talk.

Answer 1

I have a guy that I run into all the time or pass driving and feel the same way about stalking.  Maybe it's fate that you two should talk.  I would try asking him about something to do with school work and see how he responds.  The two of you might have an attraction or could be good buddies.  You never know until you try.  I don't think you would be asking this question if you didn't care what he thought of you.  It's just funny to me that the same thing happens but everytime I see my guy I look like c**p!!

Answer 2

Woah, that's what happens to me too. I randomly bump into this one guy all the time, completely accidentally, and he just gives me a blank stare and we hardly talk except for when it's entirely school-related. First I tried to stop thinking about it until I realized I kinda like the guy. And I totally know how you feel. I am not shy about speaking to the guy, because I am sort of outgoing all the time, but I dunno why, I feel awkward.

So, supposing that you have more guts than I do, talk to him casually. Or simply say "Hi". It's not a crime to say Hi to anyone, so what's the big deal? Don't just look at him and wait for him to say something first. :)

Answer 3

just smile, he probably likes you. good luck!!!!!

Answer 4

I dunno. im 16, im a guy. i probly would think ur a stalker.. but thats just me. why dont u talk to him? just say hey or something. or move seats lol

Answer 5

confusing:very

suggestion: ask him why he stares at you or ask him if he doesnt like you

Answer 6

well he might like you

or u might subconciosly like him, cause u see other people just as much, u just dont notice them.

but i doubt he thinks ur stalking him

Answer 7

You should talk to him instead of not talking, that way you would know.

Answer 8

maybe he's the stalker!!!! lol

Answer 9

OMG this happened to me! it's so awkward! he is probably thinking the same thing as you are! why don't you talk to him? break the ice and start a conversation :)

Answer 10

I think your thinking too much into this. You could say hello when you see him.  I wouldn't really worry about this or what he thinks because it doesn't really matter. Just be friendly and everything will be fine.