We have been in a relationship for nearly 10 years, but I left my husband for this guy. He was also married. But I can not talk to any one with out him saying I am "flirting" or even getting totally ticked over it. Example, and guy called me the other day to ask a question, so when I answered the phone to my surprise it was him, he said to me: "WOT UP" and I replied being silly and just having fun, (which I love to do) HEY HEY, STRANGER! that was it, and my b/f got all mad and said I sure did sound over friendly to this guy. He has me not wanting to even speak to people. I feel like he is draining me of my life, I have always been very out going and friendly to any one. When I try and just have a bs session with him, just telling him whatever might have happened while he was at work, if a man's name is mentioned, he just gets this so miserable look on his face. You can tell he is not even listening, in which I know he isn't because he will ask me questions, as to something I have already told him.
His first wife left him for another man, I really feel like I am her punching bag. That he has never trusted woman sense, and even thou he was the reason I left my husband, AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN FAITHFUL TO THIS MAN! he still treats me this way. I am so drained after 10 years of this mess. Please help me! Am I wrong in feeling this way? Should I never speak to any other men? What should I do????? This is what has happened recently to almost send me over the edge.
About a month ago, a so called friend, got mad at me for something not pertaining to this at all, but threatened to tell my live-in that I was having s*x with some one else. WHICH IS NOT TRUE!! I told my b/f from start to finish what had happened, and with me not knowing he goes to the man I was accused of having s*x with. After that he felt better about the whole situation. I have been totally furious, tho sense. I feel like if he trusted me as he says he does, then why did he go ask this man about it, instead of taken my word. This is like the last straw to me, I feel betrayed. Some body else he believes, but not me!!
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